Ben is not feral, but is a stray that showed up in my yard in early spring as a tiny kitty weighing 1 lb at first vet visit. Now he's growing into a very healthy, beautiful cat who's UTD with immunizations & is neutered.
He's not able to live in our house, as I have a large dog that I'm afraid will hurt him, or even worse. But I am planning to bring him in at nite thru the winter, as my dogs are crated thru the nites & I've done this several times before.
Here's the problem - the family of 3 boys (1 highschool, the other 2 college age), mom & dad that live next door seem to be taking over ownership of kitty, whom I call Ben.
They pet him & play with him a lot (which is great), I'm sure they feed him (which is OK, tho I'd rather he be on a strictly raw diet), but the worst part is that they take him indoors a lot, which didn't used to bother me ...
UNTIL ... I had Ben neutered & kept him indoors for a few days.
The neighbor actually called me at work to ask me "whatever happened to that cat?". I'm thinking "do you mean MY cat?", didn't say that tho. Explained that he'd been neutered & I was keeping him indoors for awhile to recupe.
Since I've been letting him outdoors again, things have resumed as they were.
Has anyone had to deal with that sort of situation before? Can I claim Ben as "mine"? Do they not think that I worry about him when they have him in their house??
Sorry to rant ...
He's not able to live in our house, as I have a large dog that I'm afraid will hurt him, or even worse. But I am planning to bring him in at nite thru the winter, as my dogs are crated thru the nites & I've done this several times before.
Here's the problem - the family of 3 boys (1 highschool, the other 2 college age), mom & dad that live next door seem to be taking over ownership of kitty, whom I call Ben.
They pet him & play with him a lot (which is great), I'm sure they feed him (which is OK, tho I'd rather he be on a strictly raw diet), but the worst part is that they take him indoors a lot, which didn't used to bother me ...
UNTIL ... I had Ben neutered & kept him indoors for a few days.
The neighbor actually called me at work to ask me "whatever happened to that cat?". I'm thinking "do you mean MY cat?", didn't say that tho. Explained that he'd been neutered & I was keeping him indoors for awhile to recupe.
Since I've been letting him outdoors again, things have resumed as they were.
Has anyone had to deal with that sort of situation before? Can I claim Ben as "mine"? Do they not think that I worry about him when they have him in their house??
Sorry to rant ...