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I just read all of Katina128's thread and that is my life with my cat...
I can understand why Katina is at her wits end with her cat Smokey. I am there as well however, the TERROR CAT stuck in a TIGER Suit is not going anywhere!
Ok, so Milo the tiger cat has recently taken to peeing on things. Mainly things that people bring into the house from someone elses house, my horses clothing is a good thing for Milo to pee on. He has peed on the couch covers, the bed, clothes, seems like everything but the actual floor.
I tried Feliway's and they do not work, I tried cat calming sprays, and NO Mark and he still does it. He is healthy, he is 2 years old, he's been with us since he was a baby.
My situation gets more like Katina128 because I have 3 other cats (black and whites) they were all tested for Fel Luk when they were babies. At 3.5 years later (they were here before Milo came into the household) my baby Leo Gump was sick, turned out he was positive for Leukemia. Leo was Milo's playmate. The other two are girls and never took to Milo but were civil.
Leo got VERY sick quick and passed away very soon after his diagnosis. After Leo passed I realized that he was the Alpha cat of my house (never knew it, he was a real lover baby boy) but he was. Once passed Milo took over that role. He was getting along great with Fluf and Spookahontas but he was depressed too.
With the girls not playing with him I decided to rescue another cat. Then came Ranger. He is a "nancy" boy but is a fun playmate for Milo. Then Milo starting peeing on things! He is MEAN to my girl cats. There is a constant fight in the house with flying fur balls. It is usually between Fluf and Milo. Ranger is just there really. He bothers no one.
I call it STRESS!
Your cat may know you are pregnant, (Katina128) you have other kids, dogs, cats, it just may too much for Smokey. I tried other boxes in other places, different litter. But what do you/I do? I LOVE Milo and made a commitment to him the day he came into our house.
I am just constantly cleaning up after him, never leaving anything out in the open, on the floor. I do not allow anyone to leave their clothes at my house (different smells are a big trigger for Milo) He peed on my husbands gym bag too. My husband is like yours. He likes the cats but I am the Mommy 24/7 for them and I am ok with that.
I do not know what to do next either. I am trying to fiigure out his thinking. I give all my cats the same love and attention. Heck, if I have to go somewhere straight from work I will go out of my way to go home to be with them for a while before I go to where I was suppose to be.
Milo will not, never has eaten wet food. I give free dry all day, clean water constantly.
Do you think he knows the others *could* be sick too? After Leo passed I could not have Milo or the 2 girls tested, not for financial issues but just because I am afraid to hear if they are sick with Leukemia. Loosing Leo was loosing a huge piece of my heart I miss him so much still (passed 3/14/09)
So I just had them get their shot and booster and that was it. I brought Ranger into the house who is negative and had him shotted and boosted as well but at some point they could all have it.
Any advice? Or do I just chalk it up to Milo is depressed and misses Leo still, Ranger is a find friend but not the same. And, does he think because he is Alpha that he is suppose to be this way? I love all my cats and although the peeing thing is an issue I would rather just know how to fix what he is going through mentally and help him fix that. I want him happy and when he pees on things I NEVER scold him, he is doing it for reasons of unhappiness.
On another note and ETA - *If* Milo has Leukemia would this cause the peeing issue. He is peeing, not spraying!
I have read the huge Sticky of urination of cats but although my situation seems the same it is not because there is no fix.
I can understand why Katina is at her wits end with her cat Smokey. I am there as well however, the TERROR CAT stuck in a TIGER Suit is not going anywhere!
Ok, so Milo the tiger cat has recently taken to peeing on things. Mainly things that people bring into the house from someone elses house, my horses clothing is a good thing for Milo to pee on. He has peed on the couch covers, the bed, clothes, seems like everything but the actual floor.
I tried Feliway's and they do not work, I tried cat calming sprays, and NO Mark and he still does it. He is healthy, he is 2 years old, he's been with us since he was a baby.
My situation gets more like Katina128 because I have 3 other cats (black and whites) they were all tested for Fel Luk when they were babies. At 3.5 years later (they were here before Milo came into the household) my baby Leo Gump was sick, turned out he was positive for Leukemia. Leo was Milo's playmate. The other two are girls and never took to Milo but were civil.
Leo got VERY sick quick and passed away very soon after his diagnosis. After Leo passed I realized that he was the Alpha cat of my house (never knew it, he was a real lover baby boy) but he was. Once passed Milo took over that role. He was getting along great with Fluf and Spookahontas but he was depressed too.
With the girls not playing with him I decided to rescue another cat. Then came Ranger. He is a "nancy" boy but is a fun playmate for Milo. Then Milo starting peeing on things! He is MEAN to my girl cats. There is a constant fight in the house with flying fur balls. It is usually between Fluf and Milo. Ranger is just there really. He bothers no one.
I call it STRESS!
Your cat may know you are pregnant, (Katina128) you have other kids, dogs, cats, it just may too much for Smokey. I tried other boxes in other places, different litter. But what do you/I do? I LOVE Milo and made a commitment to him the day he came into our house.
I am just constantly cleaning up after him, never leaving anything out in the open, on the floor. I do not allow anyone to leave their clothes at my house (different smells are a big trigger for Milo) He peed on my husbands gym bag too. My husband is like yours. He likes the cats but I am the Mommy 24/7 for them and I am ok with that.
I do not know what to do next either. I am trying to fiigure out his thinking. I give all my cats the same love and attention. Heck, if I have to go somewhere straight from work I will go out of my way to go home to be with them for a while before I go to where I was suppose to be.
Milo will not, never has eaten wet food. I give free dry all day, clean water constantly.
Do you think he knows the others *could* be sick too? After Leo passed I could not have Milo or the 2 girls tested, not for financial issues but just because I am afraid to hear if they are sick with Leukemia. Loosing Leo was loosing a huge piece of my heart I miss him so much still (passed 3/14/09)
So I just had them get their shot and booster and that was it. I brought Ranger into the house who is negative and had him shotted and boosted as well but at some point they could all have it.
Any advice? Or do I just chalk it up to Milo is depressed and misses Leo still, Ranger is a find friend but not the same. And, does he think because he is Alpha that he is suppose to be this way? I love all my cats and although the peeing thing is an issue I would rather just know how to fix what he is going through mentally and help him fix that. I want him happy and when he pees on things I NEVER scold him, he is doing it for reasons of unhappiness.
On another note and ETA - *If* Milo has Leukemia would this cause the peeing issue. He is peeing, not spraying!
I have read the huge Sticky of urination of cats but although my situation seems the same it is not because there is no fix.