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I tried to scan this article, but it is to faded to go through. It was taken from the magaizine Housekeeping Monthly on the 13th of May 1955 (my actual birthday too)
I just got it in email and wanted to share it:
THE GOOD WIFE'S GUIDE
* Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned for his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
*Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with some work-weary people
*Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him.His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide that much-needed lift
*Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before he arrives home.
*Clear away all the children's school books and potables. Place fresh flowers in a vase in the center of the dining room table.
*Over the cooler months of the year, you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order and it it will give you a lift too. After all catering for his comfort will provide you with personal satisfaction.
*Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash their hands and faces, comb their hair and change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing that part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all the noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be still.
*Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
*Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time.
* Let him talk first. Remember his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
*Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, or goes to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to underdstand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax when he does show up.
*Your goal is to try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can remew himself in body and spirit.
*Don't greet him with complaints and problems
* Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might of gone through in his day.
*Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
*Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
*Don't ask him questions about his actions, or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the Master of the House and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
*Remember, a good wife always knows her place.
THE GOOD WIFE'S GUIDE
* Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned for his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
*Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with some work-weary people
*Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him.His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide that much-needed lift
*Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before he arrives home.
*Clear away all the children's school books and potables. Place fresh flowers in a vase in the center of the dining room table.
*Over the cooler months of the year, you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order and it it will give you a lift too. After all catering for his comfort will provide you with personal satisfaction.
*Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash their hands and faces, comb their hair and change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing that part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all the noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be still.
*Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
*Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time.
* Let him talk first. Remember his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
*Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, or goes to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to underdstand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax when he does show up.
*Your goal is to try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can remew himself in body and spirit.
*Don't greet him with complaints and problems
* Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might of gone through in his day.
*Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
*Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
*Don't ask him questions about his actions, or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the Master of the House and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
*Remember, a good wife always knows her place.