Any advice on getting my cat to learn it's name? Right now, I've gotta tap the floor for her to come over to me while calling her name. Then she gets over to me and I go "good maggie" and just keep doing that whenever I call her. Any other advice?
Originally Posted by RussianKitten
I think it depends on the cat. Growing up we had Patch, Shiny and Oliver (who sadly didn't live too long). Patch knew her name. You'd say "Patch" and she'd come. Shiny was aloof and couldn't care les what you said as long as he got his dinner!
Symphony is sitting next to me and I just said Hay Symph and she looked up and meowed. Amadeus doesn't pay any attention, I call Amadeus!! Amee!! My-Amee!! lol he doesn't budge or look I could be saying anything to him (now get a piece of meat from the fridge and he's all ears!!) lol. Nefertiti shes a diva and if she wants to bless you with her divine attention then she will but if she can't be bothered amusing you she tends to switch off.
Good luck!! I like to think secretly all cats know their names, it's just some choose to amuse their humans by answering to it, others prefer to ignore it.
By the way i find if i ever want my kitties attentions you can't beat the good old meow-purr its where you meow followed by the back of the throat purr. Or the long purr where you meow and esculate it. Listen to how your cat meows to get your attention and copy her. I love to meow when im snuggled down with a good movie I usually end up with all three sat around me. (Or perhaps I am just a bit of a feline eccentric).. hmm
Originally Posted by mrblanche
Adopting a year-old cat is a lot like adopting a 13-year-old human child. A lot of their behaviors are fixed by that time, althought they do change over time.
There was a Garfield cartoon in which John, Garfield's owner asked his friend if they had had any cats when he was growing up.
"Yes," he said. "There was Cat, Cat, Cat, Cat, Cat, and ...uh... Cat."
"Why name something that doesn't come when you call it?"
Remember, the cat isn't a pack or herd animal, and it doesn't have a psychological need for your approval, as a dog does.
And you're right about the bonding. If you got a second, younger cat (after Maggie is well-settled-in), and your brother spent the time with that cat that you have spent with Maggie, that one might want to bond with him. But, if all your family has known is dogs, it might take some careful instruction from you (and us, if he asks) to make the change to a cat.
And please don't take Maggie back to the shelter, if you can avoid it all. Returned adoptions are a black mark against the cat and may well speed her through the back door into that room we shelter workers try not to think about.
Yes, no surpise she gravitated to you!Originally Posted by Bryce
We're not, at least I won't let it happen. I still love my dog more I think, but she's growing on me. I think she just comes to me more and is around me more is because they're both at school and work and I work from home, so I'm there 20 hours or more a day. And on top of that, I'm up at 3, 4, even 5am in the morning most days lol.
She does free feed, we just pour some dry food in the morning and leave it for her. If she runs out, we'll pour some more again later that night. So, at most 2 cups of dry food a day if she eats it all. Water is always there, that's a given lol. I wonder if wet food would be better for her though or does it matter?Originally Posted by LDG
Regarding your brother.... does your cat free feed on dry food? If that's the case... does your cat get any meals of wet food? If so, have your brother feed the cat the wet food meal(s). Cats like the people who feed them.
Yes, she does come more to me, but not that much. I mean early mornings and late nights is when she's mostly with me. Anytime else and she's just roaming or sitting at the window watching outside or the dog.Originally Posted by mrblanche
Yes, no surpise she gravitated to you!
The love of a cat and a dog are different. That's just the way it is. Neither is exclusive of the other.
But if you can learn to love a cat, that SHOULD improve you in the eyes of all women!