I kept both. I got married later on in life and did not want to run around changing every thing. On some counts I use my maiden, onsome counts I use his, on some counts I use both. I have never had a problem.
I am a newbie here but here it goes
I kept my last name,,,I have been married for 13 years(I was 35 when I got married)
I did not give the option...thus no decision for the other person's part.This was not a discussion,tho I did have my own special reasons.