Hello,
I'm a new member and have this problem that is really frustating me.
It's long and complicated- but feel the details are essential.
Rainbow is a 20 year old frail cat I inherited 5-6 years ago-she loves me and is kinda quiet and passive.
2 years ago a 8-12 month semi ferral started coming around I named him Boyfriend. Rainbow and Boyfiend were friends. Rainbow HATES other cats coming around, but let this one eat her food, and they were friendly. Rainbow's boyfriend.
It took me a year (long long story and lots of patience and help from the SPCA) but Boyfriend is now tame since August 08 (overnight practically- couldn't touch him now he sleeps with me every night)
Progressively over the last 6 months Boyfriend is soooo jealous of Rainbow. I don't understand it. She welcomed him into the home, taught him that I was nice. Now he pounces on her whenever she tries to come upstairs from the basement. I yell at him when I catch him, but Rainbow is now terrified to come upstairs.
One night recently I put Rainbow in bed with me and boyfriend (she's too frail to jump on the bed)- the next morning Boyfriend peed on the floor!
I'm trying to get them both to hang out in my office when I'm playing on the computer- they don't like it
I hope this makes sense
Rainbow let this kitty into our home, teached him to become tame and that I'm cool , and now boyfirend get's pissed anytime I show Rainbow any affection.
Wierd thing- he respects her food (I feed them in seperate bowls and Rainbow eats slowly throughout the day- he gobbles his in 10 seconds- leaves her food alone)- there is some respect there somwhere in his kitty brain
Thanks folks! I welcome any ferral kitty taming questions, but this guy is a miracle I think!
I'm a new member and have this problem that is really frustating me.
It's long and complicated- but feel the details are essential.
Rainbow is a 20 year old frail cat I inherited 5-6 years ago-she loves me and is kinda quiet and passive.
2 years ago a 8-12 month semi ferral started coming around I named him Boyfriend. Rainbow and Boyfiend were friends. Rainbow HATES other cats coming around, but let this one eat her food, and they were friendly. Rainbow's boyfriend.
It took me a year (long long story and lots of patience and help from the SPCA) but Boyfriend is now tame since August 08 (overnight practically- couldn't touch him now he sleeps with me every night)
Progressively over the last 6 months Boyfriend is soooo jealous of Rainbow. I don't understand it. She welcomed him into the home, taught him that I was nice. Now he pounces on her whenever she tries to come upstairs from the basement. I yell at him when I catch him, but Rainbow is now terrified to come upstairs.
One night recently I put Rainbow in bed with me and boyfriend (she's too frail to jump on the bed)- the next morning Boyfriend peed on the floor!
I'm trying to get them both to hang out in my office when I'm playing on the computer- they don't like it
I hope this makes sense
Rainbow let this kitty into our home, teached him to become tame and that I'm cool , and now boyfirend get's pissed anytime I show Rainbow any affection.
Wierd thing- he respects her food (I feed them in seperate bowls and Rainbow eats slowly throughout the day- he gobbles his in 10 seconds- leaves her food alone)- there is some respect there somwhere in his kitty brain
Thanks folks! I welcome any ferral kitty taming questions, but this guy is a miracle I think!