I needs some reassurence that I am not a bad mommy! I let my indoor one-year-old black tabby outside for like five minutes with me. I made sure she stayed on the balcony and then I brought her back in. I really thought this would just scare her so she wouldn't want to go outside (she always seemed so curious about it before, so I thought I'd feed her curiousity) Well now she has been making this whining meow and pawing at the door. I regret doing this and I feel like a cruel mommy...What to do? I've tried both distracting her with her favorite games and I've also tried ignoring her...