So i used to have this best friend in elementary school-parts of high school, we grew apart because she wanted to be with the "cool" people. She lived by me and we used to be real close up until high school. She got pregnant her senior year, then the following year (my first year in college) she got married adn wanted me as a bridesmaid altho i hrdly ever saw her, i did for her. after that i never saw her. She got pregnant again and the only time i saw her was to give her a baby shower present since i had to work. Im buisy, i am in college, have a job and have two horses to take care of. She called me tonight.....and aksed what i was doing , if i was out of school adn all, i thought maybe she wanted to hang out or something....nope....she wanted me to babysit..............from 10:30pm-1am. My bed time is like 11pm lmao cause i get up early to go to the barn before work adn i am tired. I said no i was too tired, i felt bad, her excuse was she was going to her cousins graduation party i highly doubt that. Of all these years the one time she calls me or contacts me is when she wants somehting, a gift for her new baby and babysitting. She is 20 years old, i am sorry she got pregnant, but it is her responsibility, when you have kids you have no life, you have your kids, that is just how it is. So why should i have to take time out of my "young" life to take care of her babies...i didnt get pregnant!! How do you guys feel? Part of me feels bad for saying no (i naturally have a hard time saying no) for once i stood up for myself. So am i wrong for saying no?
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5/23/09 at 7:20pm