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My daughter is on a DATE!!!!!!!!

post #1 of 19
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hee hee hee



Kendra will be 13 in July. She and Justin have been 'dating' since Dec

Justin just picked her up (via gramma's car) and is taking her out to dinner, to a Chinese restaurant in town Then they are going to go get some ice cream, take a walk in the conservation area, and she's to be home by 9.

Justin's been here before... kinda scraggly looking hair, bummy type clothes. I was so impressed, he changed and obviously got dressed up for this "date", Wore a nice pair of pants, nice shirt.... brushed and parted his hair (its shoulder length and usually in his eyes LOL) AND

he was wearing cologne

I think I'm way more excited than she was..... she asked to bring some money so she could pay for the ice cream, I asked if Justin said he was paying and she said yes. So I told her no. Not to bring money.... HE wanted to take her on a date, so she needs to let him.

I guarentee you, I'm so much more giddy than she was LMAO.

They've been out before... went to the movies (but his mom was there), spent time at each others houses (parents home)....but this is their first DATE.


hee hee hee
post #2 of 19
That's cute!
I hope she has a wonderful time, and enjoy all the butterflies!!!
post #3 of 19
Awww. Did you take a picture? It sounds like he's a very sweet guy.
post #4 of 19
awww they sound really cute!

I hope they have a good time.
post #5 of 19
awwwww soooo cute hope they have a brill night
post #6 of 19
That's so cute! So did I understand right - his Grandma is driving them? That is just too sweet.

Laurie
post #7 of 19
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I hope they have a good time.
....absolutely!...

"Meowmee",...Put a hour to come back!...... Keep an eye over they!.....
post #8 of 19
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That's so cute! So did I understand right - his Grandma is driving them? That is just too sweet.

Laurie
Yup, his gramma drove them downtown, and dropped them off. They had a nice walk, dinner and icecream Then they walked back to his gramma's house (he technically lives out of town... in the country... that's why they went to gramma's)... and gramma gave them a ride home. She had fun

I didn't think to take a picture... I should have tho I don't have any pics of her and Justin. She didn't dress up, but she normally looks pretty good....doesn't wear scruffy boy clothes, she's getting to be a little feminine LOL.

ah well, next time I will take a pic
post #9 of 19
How cute!!

It might be best you didn't take a picture! I know at that age I'd have been mortified if my mother pulled out a camera in front of a boy I liked!
post #10 of 19
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How cute!!

It might be best you didn't take a picture! I know at that age I'd have been mortified if my mother pulled out a camera in front of a boy I liked!
Absolutely - if you're at a an amusement park, a zoo, that kind of thing, cameras at that age are OK. Otherwise you'll just have to wait for an "official" dance at school or something!

Laurie
post #11 of 19
Originally Posted by MoochNNoodles
How cute!!

It might be best you didn't take a picture! I know at that age I'd have been mortified if my mother pulled out a camera in front of a boy I liked!

<<Absolutely - if you're at a an amusement park, a zoo, that kind of thing, cameras at that age are OK. Otherwise you'll just have to wait for an "official" dance at school or something! >>

I third this one.

I've got a 15 year old. She's yet to date (won't let her, and she hasn't really liked anyone- yet). However, she's mortified when I tease her gently about the boy at school she "likes". She says he's just a friend- I caught the 2 of them making "goo-goo" eyes at each other a couple of months ago at an orchestra thing (he plays cello, she plays violin)

Cheryl
post #12 of 19
How cute!!

Back when I was 13, I still thought boys had cooties! I was a late bloomer in that department: I didn't get interested in boys until I was almost 18 years old.
post #13 of 19
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Kendra's not embarassed in the least... We are pretty open, so she's quite comfortable with having a "boyfriend", etc. She asked me today why I didn't take a pic LOL.... cuz she has none of her and Justin

Maybe the next time he comes over, I'll try and get a few.
post #14 of 19
Awww that is really cute!! He really made an effort, that is sweet! I could never let a boy come home until a long time after we were together...one word= Dad lol Its great you guys talk and you are comfortable with it, im almost 20 and i still get the lectures.
post #15 of 19
That's awesome! I was always very secretive at that age but my Mum was always understanding. I met Kieran when I was 16 and we've almost been together for 3 years now!
post #16 of 19
How cute.

My parents were still leary when I went on my first date at 17! Yet I'd been hanging out with boys from the time I was 14-15! Apparently they weren't worried about me ever going out with them, although at the time I was head over heels for my best guy friend!
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Awww that is really cute!! He really made an effort, that is sweet! I could never let a boy come home until a long time after we were together...one word= Dad lol Its great you guys talk and you are comfortable with it, im almost 20 and i still get the lectures.
Honestly, I would much rather her be comfortable enough to bring boys home, rather than 'sneaking' out to be with a boy.

I trust my girl completely. We've had many talks.... her ummm 'hormones' have not kicked in... so seriously, her and her bf act like friends... She has danced with him at a school dance (told me about it, and was slightly giddy about it)... But she doesn't want to kiss or anything yet... Which is FINE by me LMAO.

At her maturity level in this department, she's not ummm, not sure how to put it... she's not interested in 'making out'.... she likes to hang out, go for walks, etc. She doesn't even think about it... I know her one friend keeps asking her when they are going to kiss...my daughter's reply "I dunno...don't feel like it".

I remember at her age, my thoughts and actions were ummmm, very experienced compared to her. I count my lucky stars for that (that she's not like I was... but I learned about that stuff way too young and not in a good way if you get my drift...that caused me to act out that way).

I just thought it was too cute, he put cologne on LOL
post #18 of 19
It's very nice for her that you're so cool! My parents were just HORRIBLE when I brought boys home.
post #19 of 19
Awww! I have a 13 year old sister. She hasn't dated yet but I imagine that I will feel the same when she's ready.
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