So it seems 95% of the time, my family keeps me out of the loop. My parents and younger brother live 3 hours from me, just outside Charlotte. I haven't seen them since April at our house warming, and we haven't been to their house since right before moving into our own in January. This weekend we're going back up for Memorial Day weekend to spend some relaxing time away and visit. My dad emails me today and says
"your mom had that mole removed and it'll be 5-7 days til we get results. Oh and her colonoscopy was done too and they found a polyp the size of a match head but aren't worried about it. She's fine and sleeping now."
Ok, he was talking as if I knew what mole or scheduled procedure he is even talking about!! I had no idea there was anything of concern going on. Just like another time they kept me out of the loop about some liver tests she had because some levels were elevated. Turned out to be nothing in the end, but argh, seems like no one ever tells me anything anymore, and when they finally do, they talk like I actually knew about it in the first place.
Just needed to vent a little. No one really communicates well in my family either. Like if I tell my dad I'm coming to visit, my mom wont know about it until 1. I show up, or 2. when I'm on my way and call to let them know we're on the interstate. He wont tell her anything half the time, so I've had to get into the habit of emailing both of them separately to make sure the message gets across. Neither of them told me anything about suspicious moles though. (My mom DOES tan just about everyday at a salon and has for YEARS, so it would make sense to check out a mole).
Of course, my grandma only told me about a cancerous lump they found in her side a couple years ago. She didnt tell my mom until this past year. She's fine, they got it all, but no one wants anyone else in the family to know things I guess! Its kind of worrisome in a way. Like if something WAS wrong, and no one decided to tell me.
/vent
"your mom had that mole removed and it'll be 5-7 days til we get results. Oh and her colonoscopy was done too and they found a polyp the size of a match head but aren't worried about it. She's fine and sleeping now."
Ok, he was talking as if I knew what mole or scheduled procedure he is even talking about!! I had no idea there was anything of concern going on. Just like another time they kept me out of the loop about some liver tests she had because some levels were elevated. Turned out to be nothing in the end, but argh, seems like no one ever tells me anything anymore, and when they finally do, they talk like I actually knew about it in the first place.
Just needed to vent a little. No one really communicates well in my family either. Like if I tell my dad I'm coming to visit, my mom wont know about it until 1. I show up, or 2. when I'm on my way and call to let them know we're on the interstate. He wont tell her anything half the time, so I've had to get into the habit of emailing both of them separately to make sure the message gets across. Neither of them told me anything about suspicious moles though. (My mom DOES tan just about everyday at a salon and has for YEARS, so it would make sense to check out a mole).
Of course, my grandma only told me about a cancerous lump they found in her side a couple years ago. She didnt tell my mom until this past year. She's fine, they got it all, but no one wants anyone else in the family to know things I guess! Its kind of worrisome in a way. Like if something WAS wrong, and no one decided to tell me.
/vent