I've heard a lot about that neutering before 12 weeks (or puberty) causes urinary/bladder problems and that the cats grow up to be small, scrawny, and gangly. Is that true? I'm wondering about this because I am trying to decide when to neuter my kitten. My sister has been speaking really strongly against neutering before puberty and has been trying to convince me of the downsides of this. But I'm wondering if maybe she's exaggerating. What do you guys think?