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Once again, thank you to everyone that is understanding. If I could take it all back I would, but I can't. If anyone has anything negative to say to me, PM me please.
I followed this link out of curiousity and it only brings me to the main page. Did they pull the thread? Just curious.Originally posted by Megan214
A poster on the Petfinder forum provided a link to this conversation to demonstrate that there are sites where people are supportive and positive to mothers who must give up their pets. That conversation has become a free for all bash fest were the negative people from that board are insulting the young woman who is pregnant. I'm sorry to say that I am a member of that board (my screenname there is Megan), and that their negativity is leaking onto other sites. Here is the link to the Petfinder conversation. http://www.petfinder.org/?dcforum/do...y/8828.html#32
Again, I am so sorry that you are being insulted on this board, and on Petfinder.
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I'm sorry if I caused any additional hurt feelings by posting the link to Petfinder. That was not my intention at all. Someone was wondering if this conversation was linked, so I posted it here instead of messaging Tasha privately. Again, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to start a "board war" or cause any pain. I thought I was doing the right thing by making people aware of what was going on.Originally posted by hissy
I don't see any flaming going on by the members I recognize from this board. I see some flaming by new people who came over here specifically to give Tasha a hard time.
Tasha, I was not targeting you in the statement of throwing your cats out like garbage. I should have clarified that. It was a blanket post- This type of post shows up here every now and again, with the topic of pregnancy, and other issues and the fact that cats get disregarded. I'm not wording this right, so I will stop. I am sure you have enough on your plate right now to deal with.
But again, I see no flaming going on here by the regular members, I see open discussion about a sensitive topic. I also will say it serves no purpose to go rooting around the internet finding posts where other people are discussing members in a negative light and bringing it them here to cross-post about. All that did (I'm sure) was add to Tasha's anguish. If you see something like that going on and you feel you have to tell the person, for pity's sake, go to PM or email to do so. That is what causes board wars and bad feelings.
I am done on this subject. Tasha I wish you the best, the path you have chosen, or that was chosen for you will be a hard one for awhile, I hope it all goes well for you.