My mom is going to come everyday and feed them and everything and even stay a little and have my brother spend time in the house a few evenings but I am so upset about leaving my cats. I am extremly close to my male who is about 10 years old and he sleeps by my side every night and loves to be right by me, It's breaking my heart about leaving, I told my husband and kids I almost thought about not going I know it would be more traumatic to take my cats with me so that's why I am not doing that, my cat had a hard time just leaving our old house to the new one. We just lost my Tazzy 5 months ago and I got another cat right away because I was so upset and I love her and she adjusted very well, my Coffy tolerates her but doesn't seem to bond with her like he was with Tazzy. I am glad I have her here though so they can be with each other while we are gone. I also call my answering machine daily to leave messages so they can hear me while I am talking on it telling them I will be home and I miss them. Tell me everything will be ok and how not to worry about leaving. I have gone before but this time with what Happened to my Tazzy I am so much more emotional about leaving.
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4/2/09 at 9:09am