That is so wisely said!!! I think it's extremely important because if you try to interpret and decipher their behavior as if they are humans it can really drive you crazy and make it more frustrating and scary to watch...
For a long time, I did parallel fishing pole toys - one in each hand - so both could play at the same time yet have their own toy. I actually got less awkward with it. What's funny is now, when I have the laser toy out, they take turns at who's chasing it. Ollie may indeed be a better jumper, etc., since he's got those male muscles, like my Dante - but my Dharma is actually more graceful and much quicker at turns when she's chasing him around. Just keep on making sure Ally gets first try at everything for now - they'll work it out.
Cats are very unpredictable, But like others have said 1. It is way too early to tell and 2. As time goes on, they will adjust to each other in their own way.
Yeah, that's the way it goes. Sometimes you just don't know until you try. When I first brought Seti home Kit tried to kill him. Seti's pretty spunky (he'd have to be in my house) and gave her hell right back. Needless to say they aren't the best of friends but even those two have learned to live together. I even catch them playing from time to time when they think no one's watching but that's rare. Anyway, your cats are young. They'll have an easier adjustment than if they were older. Once they figure out where they stand I bet they're good friends.
Sounds like pretty normal kitten play to me.They will bite ea. others faces, ears, necks and bellies... as well as other parts. As long as there is "pin and release" going on... you know... not holding down until the other kitten is screaming and still the one doing the pinning won't let up. We had some brother kittens in rescue who liked to play a game I called " jump on your brother's head and bite his ears."
