Roommates....

gailc · Mar 30, 2009

Well I wouldn't wait until this weekend they need to go now. Involve the police if you have too. Its not worth your health and your relationship with Brandon.

dixie_darlin · Apr 1, 2009

That after this weekend, they've gotta go. Wether they pay up or not.

The stress is too much.
It's obvious they have WAY too many problems and I cant handle theirs and ours too.
This morning Justice when to get his lunchbox out of the fridge, they ate his lunch for school!!! :rant:

And then, her sisters power was shut off so she decided to cuss him out, and throw MY phone at the wall and almost broke it.

And then Brandon told her to specifically not eat something in the kitchen, that is was mine.. what did she do? Laugh, and ate it!

I'm done!!!!!!

I am personally taking them to get the money saturday and I'm telling them they need to leave!!!!

No one, and I mean NO ONE takes food out of my children's mouths

strange_wings · Apr 1, 2009

^ There has to be something severely wrong with them mentally... Really, eating your son's lunch? Are they that inconsiderate or just plain stupid?

I'm sorry that you've had to learn the lesson of what being nice to people can get you - walked all over and taken advantage of.

I hope you can get them out soon, don't take any excuses and don't let them draw you into a fight. Tell them they're out and it's final. Good luck.

dixie_darlin · Apr 1, 2009

Originally Posted by strange_wings

^ There has to be something severely wrong with them mentally... Really, eating your son's lunch? Are they that inconsiderate or just plain stupid?

I'm sorry that you've had to learn the lesson of what being nice to people can get you - walked all over and taken advantage of.

I hope you can get them out soon, don't take any excuses and don't let them draw you into a fight. Tell them they're out and it's final. Good luck.

They are that inconsiderate!

I think she is a tad slow but that's not what bothers me, it's her nasty NASTY attitude.
She acts like people owe her everything because she's pregnant.

sneakymom · Apr 1, 2009

Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin

They are that inconsiderate!

I think she is a tad slow but that's not what bothers me, it's her nasty NASTY attitude.
She acts like people owe her everything because she's pregnant.

Oh my- I'm so sorry you have to go through this!
Asking them to leave by Saturday sounds like a good idea.

At least with the situation with the neighbors- they aren't inside my house 24/7!

dixie_darlin · Apr 1, 2009

Originally Posted by Sneakymom

At least with the situation with the neighbors- they aren't inside my house 24/7!

I'm envious!

Oh and to top it off, I just found out that she's never been to the Dr and she's almost 5 months pregnant!!!!!!!!!

catloverin_ks · Apr 1, 2009

You know how I feel about this Alycia

Get them out of there!! I wouldnt even give them 2 weeks....

I hope things get better soon, you have been through enough already...

dixie_darlin · Apr 2, 2009

I'm about to snap guys.. seriously... I just found out she has medicaid and hasn't went to the dr not ONE TIME since she found out she was pregnant, Plus... she is getting food stamps...

Here I am footing the bill for everything they eat and they're not contributing ANYTHING!

I am absolutely livid!!!!!!!!!!

carolina · Apr 2, 2009

Three words of advice for you: Call the sheriff!
Seriously - they have got to go... This situation will get you sick... Give them until Sunday to move out, or call the Sheriff to make sure they leave!

dixie_darlin · Apr 4, 2009

I can't get them out of my house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's a catch.22.

They only paid $200 of what was owed, leaving us to pay the other $125 for rent, and $60 for water.

Brandon and I told them that they needed to move out, so she asked for the $200 back!

So that they can get another place to live!
Um... NO!

So now, she's threatening to have the power shut off because it's in her name. When we moved here, she offered to have it just transferred from her sisters because they had moved also. Otherwise, we would have had to pay a $386.00 deposit on the power and we didn't have that kind of money when we moved.

So we are basically screwed and have to deal with thier mooching and attitude now

strange_wings · Apr 4, 2009

Use what they gave you to go get it transfered?

rosiemac · Apr 4, 2009

Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin

This morning Justice when to get his lunchbox out of the fridge, they ate his lunch for school!!! :rant:

And then, her sisters power was shut off so she decided to cuss him out, and throw MY phone at the wall and almost broke it.

And then Brandon told her to specifically not eat something in the kitchen, that is was mine.. what did she do? Laugh, and ate it!

Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin

So now, she's threatening to have the power shut off because it's in her name. When we moved here, she offered to have it just transferred from her sisters because they had moved also. Otherwise, we would have had to pay a $386.00 deposit on the power and we didn't have that kind of money when we moved.

Pack their bags and throw them out!!. Not tomorrow or the next day, do it now!.

If she shuts the power off then just find the rest of the $$, because it sounds like your going to have to anyway, and you already have the $200.

The longer you let them stay just for the sake of $$ the worse things will get.

cococat · Apr 4, 2009

Originally Posted by strange_wings

Use what they gave you to go get it transfered?

This! I agree.

dixie_darlin · Apr 4, 2009

Originally Posted by cococat

This! I agree.

I would but the money has to go to the rent because the landlord with us when we moved in. She took $350 to move in and we agreed to have her the other $325 by today.

yosemite · Apr 4, 2009

I was under the impression that this was yours and Brandon's place - I thought you folks were the tenants and paying all the bills. If they have paid some of the bills (sounds like they paid about half), then they have every right to be there too. Seems like the only way you are going to get rid of them is if you and Brandon and the boys move again.

Trouble follows you around woman.

natalie_ca · Apr 5, 2009

Originally Posted by Yosemite

I was under the impression that this was yours and Brandon's place - I thought you folks were the tenants and paying all the bills. If they have paid some of the bills (sounds like they paid about half), then they have every right to be there too. Seems like the only way you are going to get rid of them is if you and Brandon and the boys move again.

Trouble follows you around woman.

That's what I was thinking too. But now I'm left with the impression, based on her later posts, that it was a room-mate arrangement between her and her boyfriend and this other couple, from the beginning when they moved to the house, and now it's not working out, so they want them to move out.

If that is the case, then there really isn't anything you can do other than break your lease and move out to another place and leave them there to fend for themselves.

If their names are on the lease too, and you are paying your share of the rent and they aren't, perhaps the landlord can evict them, but then it will leave you in a situation where you will be living in a place that is most likely more than you can afford, given the fact that you have another couple sharing the costs with you guys.

dixie_darlin · Apr 5, 2009

Originally Posted by Yosemite

I was under the impression that this was yours and Brandon's place - I thought you folks were the tenants and paying all the bills. If they have paid some of the bills (sounds like they paid about half), then they have every right to be there too. Seems like the only way you are going to get rid of them is if you and Brandon and the boys move again.

Trouble follows you around woman.

Originally Posted by Natalie_ca

That's what I was thinking too. But now I'm left with the impression, based on her later posts, that it was a room-mate arrangement between her and her boyfriend and this other couple, from the beginning when they moved to the house, and now it's not working out, so they want them to move out.

If that is the case, then there really isn't anything you can do other than break your lease and move out to another place and leave them there to fend for themselves.

If their names are on the lease too, and you are paying your share of the rent and they aren't, perhaps the landlord can evict them, but then it will leave you in a situation where you will be living in a place that is most likely more than you can afford, given the fact that you have another couple sharing the costs with you guys.

Maybe I didn't make it clear about this. It is mine and Brandon's house. Their names are NOT on the lease, we paid the deposit for her to put it in her name because I was too busy trying to make everything happen around here.. IE, packing, arranging the U-Haul, meeting with the landlord, and our lawyer... and so on.
I mean I physically gave her the money and asked her to go to the power company to take care of it because I didn't have the time to go there. We literally had 3 days to move.

Today, I had a breakdown... I was sitting at a friend's house and it all hit me.

I think I'm just going to let her and her boyfriend have the house and I'm moving to my mom's.
I just can't handle it anymore. So if I'm not on for awhile, that's why.
The few years have taken a toll on me and I can't take anymore. I need peace, I need serenity, and more importantly, I can't go on like this..
I can't eat, I can't sleep and now, I don't even feel comfortable in my own home.

Thanks for all the great advice ya'll. I've learned that everyone has a breaking point, and tonight... I broke...

Bye for now...

strange_wings · Apr 5, 2009

Just be careful doing that. It would be horrible if that came back to make it harder for you to get a home later.

You best bet is to get away for a bit if you can, get the power switched over and get rid of them. Don't completely give up your home.

But you also need to be careful leaving them with your stuff - lest you come back to it missing.

yosemite · Apr 6, 2009

Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin

Maybe I didn't make it clear about this. It is mine and Brandon's house. Their names are NOT on the lease, we paid the deposit for her to put it in her name because I was too busy trying to make everything happen around here.. IE, packing, arranging the U-Haul, meeting with the landlord, and our lawyer... and so on.
I mean I physically gave her the money and asked her to go to the power company to take care of it because I didn't have the time to go there. We literally had 3 days to move.

Today, I had a breakdown... I was sitting at a friend's house and it all hit me.

I think I'm just going to let her and her boyfriend have the house and I'm moving to my mom's.
I just can't handle it anymore. So if I'm not on for awhile, that's why.
The few years have taken a toll on me and I can't take anymore. I need peace, I need serenity, and more importantly, I can't go on like this..
I can't eat, I can't sleep and now, I don't even feel comfortable in my own home.

Thanks for all the great advice ya'll. I've learned that everyone has a breaking point, and tonight... I broke...

Bye for now...

Alycia, with the relationship you have with your parents, is that really a good idea? That could end up being even more stressful for you and the kids. If my memory serves me correctly, they will not allow Brandon in their home so would he stay behind with the other couple?

Your life has more ups and downs than a roller coaster. I don't know how you have managed to cope up until now. As the poster above suggested, don't act too hastily - it might come back to bite you in the ###.

rosiemac · Apr 6, 2009

Originally Posted by Yosemite

Alycia, with the relationship you have with your parents, is that really a good idea?

That's what i was thinking as well?.

If it's your house just tell them to leave, then work out where you can get the funds from by selling things, the PC being one of them.

Whats happening with the animals?

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