A year ago yesterday was the worst day of my life. My mom died because her liver was damaged due to medications she had taken. Once her liver failed all the other organs followed thereafter.
I know it was a relief to her because she suffered miserably for months, but for me it was the worst experience of my life. I had only been to one funeral before hers and it wasn't someone who I was close to, but did know.
Some days are better than others. I try to live my life day to day as if everything is normal, but then, something happens, and it is the reality that sets in. Knowing that something will happen is worse than not knowing it will happen. So how am I suppose to live my life when I know it is not over? I hate pretending that it is all ok, when it isn't. Everything reminds me of her and I appreciate her even more now.
There are days I wish I could ask her questions, but I can't. There is a huge void and she will never come back. I still get angry at times because of everything that happened and how much she suffered. She didn't do anything to deserve this.
Has anyone else ever experience this?
I know it was a relief to her because she suffered miserably for months, but for me it was the worst experience of my life. I had only been to one funeral before hers and it wasn't someone who I was close to, but did know.
Some days are better than others. I try to live my life day to day as if everything is normal, but then, something happens, and it is the reality that sets in. Knowing that something will happen is worse than not knowing it will happen. So how am I suppose to live my life when I know it is not over? I hate pretending that it is all ok, when it isn't. Everything reminds me of her and I appreciate her even more now.
There are days I wish I could ask her questions, but I can't. There is a huge void and she will never come back. I still get angry at times because of everything that happened and how much she suffered. She didn't do anything to deserve this.
Has anyone else ever experience this?