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Please pray for my baby!

post #1 of 46
Thread Starter 
I should be in bed right now but I had to sneak in and give you an update.

I had been bleeding last night and there's a 50-50 chance of this pregnancy ending very soon in a miscarriage

I'm supposed to lie down today and tomorow and then we'll see.

I won't be on the site much - I'll be thinking about you all!
post #2 of 46
I shall pray for you and your baby. May you be surrounded by your loved ones at this time, yet also may you be left alone when you wish. May you and your baby enjoy good health; but if that is not to be, may you eventually come to know peace of mind. I'm so sorry to learn of this difficulty! God bless you both.

post #3 of 46
Oh Anne, prayers are coming your way. Please stay off the computer but tell hubby to keep us posted.

post #4 of 46
Anne, I will be praying for the both of you. Like Fran said, maybe hubby can let us know how you are.
post #5 of 46
Oh, Anne, please do what the doctor says! I am sending you a prayer to hope for the best. Have hubby keep us updated.
post #6 of 46
Sending my best wishes and prayers that everything will be ok.Take care
post #7 of 46
Prayers on the way.
post #8 of 46

I am praying for you and your baby.
post #9 of 46

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
post #10 of 46
you will be in my thoughts & prayers!

I'm with Deb25, listen to the doctor!
post #11 of 46
Oh, Anne, I am so sorry to hear this! You poor thing. You guys have been trying for a while, have you nota? Keep your head high and faith strong! Noone knows what His master plan is for each of us, but I am sure that good things will happen for you. No matter what though, please know that you have many here who care and are here for you. Just relax and take it easy. The site will be just fine. And we'll all be waiting for, hopefully, good news.
post #12 of 46
My family and I will be praying and thinking of you until we hear from hubby, differently. Also Purrs and headbutts from the Kids...
post #13 of 46
Dear Anne,

Please listen to your doctor. I will be praying for the three of you and you will be in my thoughts.


post #14 of 46
Anne, my thoughts are with you. I hope everything turns out alright!
post #15 of 46
Dear Anne, I am new to this forum. Even though I don't know you, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
post #16 of 46
It is important that you follow the doctor's orders, even though your heart wants to be with your friends for love and support. By any chance did your mom take the drug Diastybestrol when she was carrying you? It is also called DES and has been known to cause problems in the offsprings when it comes to pregnancy.

Anne, I lost 4 babies in my first marriage and unfortunately I know full well all the emotions you are going through. The only thing I can do is to add my prayers that God will give you the strength to deal with what is on your plate, and if you need to talk, you know where to reach your friends. God Bless You during this highly emotional time.


Mary Anne
post #17 of 46
Thread Starter 
Thank you so much everyone! I have just been to my regular OB and he did an internal ultrasound. The good news is I am still pregnant - we could see the pregnancy sack and the embryo. But, it's hard to tell right now where things are going as he's not sure about the cause of the bleeding.

I have another appointment in 2 weeks and only then we'll be able to see if the baby is alive (if there's a heartbeat or not). I jsut pray that these couple of weeks will go by smoothly with no further bleeding and that the baby will be fine.

By the way, hubby's away for a couple of days (on duty ) so my brother in law took me to the doctor.

Again, thank you so much for your kind words and support - I sure needed it! I will be getting back to work tomorow as my doctor says there's no reason for me to stay in bed. He said just to take things easy for a while and not overwork myself.

So, I will be the taking the rest of the evening off to rest and try and relax from this ordeal. I'll talk to you guys tomorow.
post #18 of 46
This just arrived in my in-box. Just wanted to share it.

I asked for strength.! ........
And God gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom........
And God gave me problems to solve.

I asked for prosperity.........
And God gave me Brain and Brawn to work.
I asked for Courage..........
And God gave me Danger to overcome.

I asked for Love..........
And God gave me troubled people to help.

I asked for Favors..............
And God gave me opportunities.

I received nothing I wanted.................
I received everything I needed!
May your path be bright and full of light everywhere you go. And, I
your feet will never stumble out of God's plan. May the desires of
heart come true, and may you experience Peace in everything you do.
Goodness, Kindness, and Mercy come your way.
And, may you gain Wisdom and grow in the Lord everyday.
post #19 of 46
You are in my thoughts and prayers that everything will turn out just fine. Take no chances - do everything the doctors tell you - all of us here on the site are thinking of you.
post #20 of 46
I'm glad to hear that you are still pregnaut! I will be praying that the next 2 weeks go by smoothly and trouble free
post #21 of 46
I am so happy that everything is okay so far. Please take care of yourself and I will thinking about you.

post #22 of 46
Oh Anne....we all love you SO much...where would we be without you? We never would have met and become the family that we are. I hope everything goes okay with the baby....I will pray for you. I am worried now. I hope you are okay. I know God is looking out for you!

post #23 of 46
I am so very sorry to hear about the problems that you are going through. I also know what it is like to have pregnancy complications. My husband and I have been trying for three years. Through those three years we have been through three miscarriages. Don't loose faith. Stay off your feet as much as possible and allow those around you to give you a little extra pampering. You and the baby deserve it. I will put an extra special place in my prayers for you and your family. I know as much as anyone what joy it brings to have the chance to be a mom. After all the problems I will finally be able to experience it again in November. So in a small way I feel like god sent us a miracle. He will do the same for you. Mabye not today, but it will happen for you. Besides you and the baby have to stay well, I need someone to share all the swollen feet and midnight craving stories with. Just remember that you have alot of people who are praying for you and are here even if you just need to scream. That's what friends are for.
post #24 of 46
I didn't know you were pregnant....... How many months are you!? Sorry, I haven't been keeping up on the posts, but congratulations, and I hope you and the baby will be okay! Please listen to the doctor and lay down!!
post #25 of 46
I am so sorry to hear about this. I am pregnant now too and I had bleeding with this pregnancy and the one before. I know how you feel. With my last one I started bleeding at 8 weeks this one it started at 16 weeks. This time the doctor had no idea why it happened. Last time the placenta was low and that caused it. I hope things are ok for you. I know it's hard but try not to think about it. Sometimes that makes it worse. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out ok. I am due in September.
post #26 of 46

I hope everything is still ok with you. I am sending more prayers your way.


DES is horrible and causes much more than problems with pregnancy. My younger sister is a DES baby. My mother had several miscarriages after I was born. So my mother took DES with both my sister and brother. My sister has had a multitude of reproductive problems since puberty. As a matter of fact, she will be having a complete hysterectomy in a couple of weeks because of continued laser surgeries to remove abnormal cell growth. She isn't even 40 yet! She was told many years ago that she probably wouldn't ever be able to sustain a pregnancy. There's a special clinic in Houston (where she lives) that deals strictly with DES. She has been going there since the age of 14.
post #27 of 46
Anne, I'm so sorry.You and your baby will be in my prayers.

This is a little prayer:angel2:

"I wish for you..."

Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart,
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Faith so that you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And love to complete your life.

post #28 of 46
Thread Starter 
Thank you once again everyone for your kind words and prayers and for those lovely poems!

I have had a good night's sleep so I am more calm today and in a better state to answer any questions

I am just at the beginning of my 6th week - very very early on the way. If all goes right, the due date will be somewhere around the end of January- beginning of February.

No, I am not a DES victim. I have read about it and I understand that the women who were DES children suffer from serious abnormalities in the uterus. Deb - I am sorry to hear that your sister suffers from the affects of this drug! It is so horrible!

Actually, my last pregnancy ended as a missed abortion. That means that my body hung onto the pregnancy even after the embryo died (I had to have a D & C). I had no bleedings last time, so I guess this one is a different story altogether. Still, I am more scared this time because I lost the previous one...

These are going to be long 2 weeks...

Thanks again everyone for your help - this really means so much to me!
post #29 of 46
Anne and family...
Thoughts and prayers are with you from here too.
Bless you all.
post #30 of 46
Anne; First of all I want to say that I feel so inadequate for not responding before now. Please forgive me. You know that I am praying for you and the baby continually. (If you remember, I made reference to your having a successful pregnancy in an e-mail I sent to you when we were discussing T-shirts back in the first part of May) I feel like God gave me a word that you were pregnant then and this was bfore you had told any of us. I did not make much of it when you did not respond; because I did not want you to think that I was overstepping the boundaries of privacy. I remind you of this now to be able to say that I still see a bright light surrounding your pregnancy and feel very strongly that all will go well. I will shower you with positive energy and powerful prayers until we know for sure that all is well. . . . .

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