Right now I am kinda numb about it all. Last night I was an emotional basket that was not handling this well.
My friend, a 39 yr old female, had a bad stroke yesterday. I understand that you can show small signs of a stroke hours before things get bad, well at 6pm things got bad. She has 0 feeling on her right side, from head to toe. At the time had no idea where she was, what had happened, what was going on around her, nothing. At 7:30pm they transported her to the next largest city (1 1/2 hrs away) so she could receive better treatment than our little hospital could provide.
I am still trying to piece together how this could happen. I saw her Sunday and she was fine. Monday she had some x-rays taken because she was fixing to have some teeth removed so she could get dentures. Tuesday she had 20 teeth removed and dentures placed. I talked to her after the procedure and she was fine. In pain because of the extractions but fine. Wednesday she was fine once again sore and a little swollen from the extractions but fine. Thursday (yesterday) I thought about going out there to visit her but decided Friday would be better because then I would not have to rush. It kept nagging at me all afternoon to go out there and see how she is doing. Instead I pushed those thoughts aside. At 6pm I got the news they took her to the hospital for a possible stroke. I think some of us just thought she was over-reacting after the extractions (and I am ashamed to say that I thought the same way). At 7:30pm her daughter called me and the doctors confirmed she had a bad stroke. I am unsure how bad because I was unable to get to the hospital when it happened.
Me and the husband plan to make the trip Sunday to visit with her and the family. I am close with all the local family she has so no it would not be awkward for me to be there.
Please send her some and a few more for the family.
My friend, a 39 yr old female, had a bad stroke yesterday. I understand that you can show small signs of a stroke hours before things get bad, well at 6pm things got bad. She has 0 feeling on her right side, from head to toe. At the time had no idea where she was, what had happened, what was going on around her, nothing. At 7:30pm they transported her to the next largest city (1 1/2 hrs away) so she could receive better treatment than our little hospital could provide.
I am still trying to piece together how this could happen. I saw her Sunday and she was fine. Monday she had some x-rays taken because she was fixing to have some teeth removed so she could get dentures. Tuesday she had 20 teeth removed and dentures placed. I talked to her after the procedure and she was fine. In pain because of the extractions but fine. Wednesday she was fine once again sore and a little swollen from the extractions but fine. Thursday (yesterday) I thought about going out there to visit her but decided Friday would be better because then I would not have to rush. It kept nagging at me all afternoon to go out there and see how she is doing. Instead I pushed those thoughts aside. At 6pm I got the news they took her to the hospital for a possible stroke. I think some of us just thought she was over-reacting after the extractions (and I am ashamed to say that I thought the same way). At 7:30pm her daughter called me and the doctors confirmed she had a bad stroke. I am unsure how bad because I was unable to get to the hospital when it happened.
Me and the husband plan to make the trip Sunday to visit with her and the family. I am close with all the local family she has so no it would not be awkward for me to be there.
Please send her some and a few more for the family.