So we have lived in our new place for almost a year now. We only share one wall with one neighbor. She is the problem.
Tonight is DH's birthday. We have music on, no louder than a tv would normally be but it is music so it may sound different. We are partying a bit, hey its his birthday, we are adults we are aloud to do that. When just about 10 pm she banged on the wall, hard. It was hard enough to knock some things off shelves and scare that cats. I take big offense when someone scares my babies. About 15 minutes later a cop shows up. We had already figured that she banged because of the music so we turned it down. Now its so low we may as well just turn it off. The cop told us that it was at the descretion of the complainant if the music was too loud and he really could not tell us if it was too loud or not. He did seem annoyed to be here and I could tell he thought it was a false call. We have called our manager who is also the owner of the building and told him our side of it. We know she did the same thing.
This woman has been nothing but trouble. She does not like us because we are friends with tenents she does not like. One of those tenents is my own cousin. He called her out on the fact that she lets her dogs poo where ever they want and does not pick up after them. She got all defensive and in his face about it when all he did was say hey try to pick up after your dogs. He did it in a nice way too, we heard the whole thing. She flipped out on him. We have also been warned by the owner and other tenents that she is one a multitude of pain pills and has had issues with others.
We have heard from other people who have lived in the neighborhood that they have seen her physically abusing her son. We have never seen it but I think on a few different occasions I have heard it. The walls are very thin. She leaves her dogs locked up fo hours, not just the recomended 4-5 hous but for 8-10 hours a day. Sha never walks them and they stink. One of our other neighbors who is a vet tech said a few days back when her dogs walk by they have the smell of yeast. The smell from her place is starting to come into our place. It smells like urine and mold.
I have tried changing litters and everything, tinking it was the cats. Well I smell the same thing on our pourch after she has let the dogs out. So that tells me its not my babies.
We have been very patient. Her son lets the dogs out an yells at them at 6 am. I work untill midnight, sometimes later. 6 am is right around the time I fall asleep. I never once have complained. She leaves her laundry in the machine for hours at a a time. I mean like 5-6 hours, to the point where no one else can use it. DH has even seen her start a load at 2pm and not put it in the dryer untill the next day. We know she is doing it to try and start something with us. She is very passive aggressive.
The owner has also told us that she has been calling and complaining about mice and cockroaches in her unit. We have not seen any yet, thank god for kitties. The idea that they are right next door scares me. For our health and the babies health.
She is just a problem. The owner is afraid to deal with her, why we don't know. He doesn't like her and neither do his employies or his partner. She pays WAY less than everyone else int the comlex. Her rent is about 200 less than ous for the same unit. She is also on secton 8 and god knows what else.
Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent. If anyone has any ideas on how to handle this please tell me. We want her out of the building but because of her its not such a nice place to be. Now we are debating do we call animal control or child services? Flat out I just don't like her.
Tonight is DH's birthday. We have music on, no louder than a tv would normally be but it is music so it may sound different. We are partying a bit, hey its his birthday, we are adults we are aloud to do that. When just about 10 pm she banged on the wall, hard. It was hard enough to knock some things off shelves and scare that cats. I take big offense when someone scares my babies. About 15 minutes later a cop shows up. We had already figured that she banged because of the music so we turned it down. Now its so low we may as well just turn it off. The cop told us that it was at the descretion of the complainant if the music was too loud and he really could not tell us if it was too loud or not. He did seem annoyed to be here and I could tell he thought it was a false call. We have called our manager who is also the owner of the building and told him our side of it. We know she did the same thing.
This woman has been nothing but trouble. She does not like us because we are friends with tenents she does not like. One of those tenents is my own cousin. He called her out on the fact that she lets her dogs poo where ever they want and does not pick up after them. She got all defensive and in his face about it when all he did was say hey try to pick up after your dogs. He did it in a nice way too, we heard the whole thing. She flipped out on him. We have also been warned by the owner and other tenents that she is one a multitude of pain pills and has had issues with others.
We have heard from other people who have lived in the neighborhood that they have seen her physically abusing her son. We have never seen it but I think on a few different occasions I have heard it. The walls are very thin. She leaves her dogs locked up fo hours, not just the recomended 4-5 hous but for 8-10 hours a day. Sha never walks them and they stink. One of our other neighbors who is a vet tech said a few days back when her dogs walk by they have the smell of yeast. The smell from her place is starting to come into our place. It smells like urine and mold.
I have tried changing litters and everything, tinking it was the cats. Well I smell the same thing on our pourch after she has let the dogs out. So that tells me its not my babies.
We have been very patient. Her son lets the dogs out an yells at them at 6 am. I work untill midnight, sometimes later. 6 am is right around the time I fall asleep. I never once have complained. She leaves her laundry in the machine for hours at a a time. I mean like 5-6 hours, to the point where no one else can use it. DH has even seen her start a load at 2pm and not put it in the dryer untill the next day. We know she is doing it to try and start something with us. She is very passive aggressive.
The owner has also told us that she has been calling and complaining about mice and cockroaches in her unit. We have not seen any yet, thank god for kitties. The idea that they are right next door scares me. For our health and the babies health.
She is just a problem. The owner is afraid to deal with her, why we don't know. He doesn't like her and neither do his employies or his partner. She pays WAY less than everyone else int the comlex. Her rent is about 200 less than ous for the same unit. She is also on secton 8 and god knows what else.
Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent. If anyone has any ideas on how to handle this please tell me. We want her out of the building but because of her its not such a nice place to be. Now we are debating do we call animal control or child services? Flat out I just don't like her.
