I just broke up with my fiance.

juliejerks

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The relationship has been doing nothing but stressing me out for a long time. There were some good times, I love him, and it really, really, really hurts, but I think I did the right thing. I put up with a lot, and I think I deserve better than that. I tried everything to make it work, but I just felt completely misunderstood, disrespected and not even taken seriously on a daily basis.
At first he was really upset, and appologised, and said he'd try to figure out how to make things work, and I actually put my ring back on, and I was so ready to give it another go, but just now he told me that he's seeing things clearly for the first time, and he really doesn't care, and he's gonna move up to Reno with his exgirlfriend who he cheated on me with a year ago, or move up to alaska to fish for crabs.
On top of all that I have my citizenship interview coming up in less than 2 months, my mum's planning on moving back to Russia this year, and I won't have any family here at all, I can't find a job for the life of me (I'm making like 400 bucks a month right now) and I just have no idea what I'm going to do. I mean, it can't get too much worse, so I'm assuming something good's supposed to happen kindof soon.
 

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I am sorry you are going thru this
but it does sound like you are better off without him.

I hope things start going better, and that you are able to find a job soon.
 

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It must have been a hard decision for you on top of everything you've got on your plate right now, but it sounds like it is the right one. My best friend got married this summer even though she had serious doubts, now all she wants is the divorce to go through so that's one less thing to worry about.
 

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Big hugs---you sound like a very strong person! I hope things turn around for you soon.

Cally
 

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I'm sorry for your heartache.

But a very wise teacher in high school used to say, "If more engagements were broken up, fewer marriages would be."
 

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I'm so sorry you're having a rough time right now. I'm going through a break up too, only i married him first. It sounds like you really did the right thing.
Have you thought about moving back to russia and being with your family?
 
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Originally Posted by Jessy

I'm so sorry you're having a rough time right now. I'm going through a break up too, only i married him first. It sounds like you really did the right thing.
Have you thought about moving back to russia and being with your family?
I have no idea how things work out there. I've been here forever, and this is really all I know, but I know it well. I have a gameplan here. In Russia I'd have no idea how to go about anything, haha.
 
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