I have left my marital home, and am staying in a holiday cottage. It has a living room/kitchen, bathroom and two bedrooms, so itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s not too small for them. I left on Saturday night and took my two girls with me. I have plugged in a feliway diffuser, brought their favourite scratching matt and toys, and am trying to keep everything normal for them. They are understandably riled, and are looking unsettled, sometimes they seem ok, other times they hide away for a while. What can I do to help make them happy?
I feel so guilty for disturbing them and making them unhappy, just so that they could be with me. I could have left them at the house with my husband, but I was nervous that he wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t care for them as well, and I knew that I would be even more miserable without my girls. I feel selfish.
They did used to go outside sometimes at home, and they canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t do that now, which is probably not helping. Although there are lots of fields, green space etc, as we are in the grounds of a farm, they wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know where they were so might run and hide and get lost.
I've seen on here that some people take their cats on holiday with them, how do they do this without unsettling the cats?
Any advice will be really appreciated.
Thanks,
Jess
I feel so guilty for disturbing them and making them unhappy, just so that they could be with me. I could have left them at the house with my husband, but I was nervous that he wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t care for them as well, and I knew that I would be even more miserable without my girls. I feel selfish.
They did used to go outside sometimes at home, and they canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t do that now, which is probably not helping. Although there are lots of fields, green space etc, as we are in the grounds of a farm, they wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know where they were so might run and hide and get lost.
I've seen on here that some people take their cats on holiday with them, how do they do this without unsettling the cats?
Any advice will be really appreciated.
Thanks,
Jess