I know I've posted probably about this before, but I do need some help!
My baby girl, Khi, always hides behind the couch.
I do get the feeling shes very scared around my boyfriend and he thinks he's trying to make amends with her (she was scared of him since day one! she litteraly hates him!!!) and she just refuses.
He blocked all her hiding spots behind the couch, so she no longer can go behind there to hide, becuase he was tired of her hidding and us never seeing her..
I feel like she needs her privacy to hide somewhere, where nobody can see her and leave her be alone.
He plays with her a lot, he's trying to connect with her but she just hisses at him. SHe really really dislikes him, and we think it has to do with her (possibly) being abused in the past by a male ( shes only 11 months!).
He thinks he's helping, but I feel like he is torturing her and I keep telling him to leave her alone, and he does for a few minutes but then....he goes back at it becuase I think it bothers him that she closes her self off.
I lover her so so so much and I just want her to be happy!
She mean sso much.
Any help???
Thanks!
My baby girl, Khi, always hides behind the couch.
I do get the feeling shes very scared around my boyfriend and he thinks he's trying to make amends with her (she was scared of him since day one! she litteraly hates him!!!) and she just refuses.
He blocked all her hiding spots behind the couch, so she no longer can go behind there to hide, becuase he was tired of her hidding and us never seeing her..
I feel like she needs her privacy to hide somewhere, where nobody can see her and leave her be alone.
He plays with her a lot, he's trying to connect with her but she just hisses at him. SHe really really dislikes him, and we think it has to do with her (possibly) being abused in the past by a male ( shes only 11 months!).
He thinks he's helping, but I feel like he is torturing her and I keep telling him to leave her alone, and he does for a few minutes but then....he goes back at it becuase I think it bothers him that she closes her self off.
I lover her so so so much and I just want her to be happy!
She mean sso much.
Any help???
Thanks!