We love you Debby!

Debby my darling - you always have a good kind word for everyone else, and now is the time that everybody is standing behind you offering you the help, love and understanding you deserve.

You are feeling such pain right now it's as if nothing else matters. I hope and pray that the dark cloud of despair will lift and the sunshine comes out on your life again.

We'll be here waiting to welcome you with a huge hug and a cheer when that moment comes.

Lots and lots of love.

Debby,

I love you, and miss you, and I hope you find the stregnth to return to us soon! This place isn't the same without you, girl!

Sweet sweet Debby! Wish you were here! Can't wait to have you back with ut - I miss you!

Debby, you are always trying to take care of everyone else, it is time that we now take care of you. Take the time you need to start to come to terms with the loss of Merlin. Know that we are here for you when you need, but you don't have to keep up a happy front. Grieve as long as you need to. I wrote this prose for you.

The rain whispers on the pavement,
Echoing the fall of your tears.
Inside your heart is breaking
Nothing will ever be the same.

Your loss had no rhyme or reason,
Your soul cries out the question "why?".
But God needed a special angel,
To stand forever at his side.

He'll send his angel to your side
In times in sorrow and in joy.
To be your guardian through all time
To be closer then before.

He is a shining light
To guide you when you're weary.
Be peaceful in his love
And gain comfort in his grace.

Debby, your presence is sorely missed, and everyone has been very sad about your loss. Keep Merlin close to your heart, and know that you have a place here where you can talk about him and your feelings for him anytime.

We miss you Debby! I always love reading all your posts. You always have very kind words to say to everyone and you're always there for fellow TCS members. Hang in there and know that we are all thinking of you and awaiting your return to TCS when you are ready. I hope you had a Happy Mothers Day. :flower:

Debby, I am so sorry to hear about Merlin. I can't imagine how sad you must be. Everyone at TCS misses you, you are such an important part of this site. Take the time you need to heal(as much as you can, anyway) and be ready to come back.

I know there are no words you can write that will express the pain of the loss of a loved one. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

(((hugs))) and a box of Puffs from binkyhoo

Dear Debby,
I am so sorry for you loss.
I can just begin to imagine how terrible you must feel! When my Pollyanna went missing for 3 days, I cried the whole time, missing and worrying and blaiming myself for letting her out, for not cuddle her and combing more often etc. At first I wanted to keep her inside, because I loved her so much, but later I realized that she really needed to be allowed outside to fullfill her own happyness. I am sure your Merlin had the happiest life possible with you loving him so much and allowing him to enjoy your love and the outdoor which he also loved.
You have been in my thoughts and I hope you will start feeling better, even though you might find that impossible now. I am sure Merlin will be near you, watching over you and giving you strength.
Take all the time you need, I look forward to read your posts again!

"When you are sad, look at your mind, and you will see, that what your cry over, used to be your happiness."
Kahil Gibran (I hope I don´t offend anyone with my poor transation, I only have this in Icelandic.)

Take care, Sesselja, Pollýanna and Feykirófa