We have 2 cats, but one of them is extremely skittish. She will only allow us to pet her if we are lying down horizontally, or else sitting next to her on the couch. Otherwise, she runs away in terror. She is four years old, an indoor only cat. We really wanted a friendly cat, and our other one is somewhat friendly, getting friendlier, but not this one. Can anything be done to make her not be afraid of us?