This is about my ongoing plight with that nursing assistant at work who thinks she runs the place and tries to order around the nurses and tell them what to do.
She pulled another one of her stunts on me inside a patient's room. I went to the charge nurse and told her that if this girl doesn't stop trying to undermine me I'm going to choke her!
I went and sat down in the back and charted on a patient, and then decided that was enough!
I said right in front of a whole bunch of staff "Jane (not her real name), I'd like to speak to you privately" and then went into the medication room.
I told her flat out that I didn't appreciate what she did in that patient's room. I told her that I appreciate her trying to help, and that I know she's been on the ward a good many years, but that she's a nursing assistant, not the nurse, and that by her questioning or correcting me in front of a patient, not only undermines me, but it also gives the patient the impression that I don't know what I'm doing or talking about and as a result they lose confidence in my ability to care for them.
I told her flat out that I appreciate her trying to help, and I acknowledge that I'm relatively new to the area and realize that there are things that I am still learning and figuring out as I go along, but that in the future if she feels she has something she wants to share that she thinks will help me, to ask me to step out of the room and talk to me in private, and to not do it in earshot of the patient. And I told her in no uncertain terms that she better not do it again or there will be consequences beyond my talking to her about it.
She said that she would discuss it with me in private in the future instead of in front of the patient. Now we'll see if anything changes.
She pulled another one of her stunts on me inside a patient's room. I went to the charge nurse and told her that if this girl doesn't stop trying to undermine me I'm going to choke her!
I went and sat down in the back and charted on a patient, and then decided that was enough!
I said right in front of a whole bunch of staff "Jane (not her real name), I'd like to speak to you privately" and then went into the medication room.
I told her flat out that I didn't appreciate what she did in that patient's room. I told her that I appreciate her trying to help, and that I know she's been on the ward a good many years, but that she's a nursing assistant, not the nurse, and that by her questioning or correcting me in front of a patient, not only undermines me, but it also gives the patient the impression that I don't know what I'm doing or talking about and as a result they lose confidence in my ability to care for them.
I told her flat out that I appreciate her trying to help, and I acknowledge that I'm relatively new to the area and realize that there are things that I am still learning and figuring out as I go along, but that in the future if she feels she has something she wants to share that she thinks will help me, to ask me to step out of the room and talk to me in private, and to not do it in earshot of the patient. And I told her in no uncertain terms that she better not do it again or there will be consequences beyond my talking to her about it.
She said that she would discuss it with me in private in the future instead of in front of the patient. Now we'll see if anything changes.