The person I'm dating has two cats, both female, and I have two male cats. Because she lives in a very small space, her two cats have been staying with me. They are not fond of my boys, though, and I'm looking for more ideas on convincing them to get along. The girls are kept separate from the boys. I have a two bedroom apartment, so the boys have the smaller, extra bedroom, and the girls share the main bedroom with me. Each pair alternately gets to roam in the living room as well. The boys get more living room time since they have the smaller bedroom and since they were here first. The girls are sisters and are three years old. One of my boys is 3 years and the other is about 15 years.
I have a Feliway diffuser (though it's almost empty now) in the main bedroom. They have had a few face-to-face encounters, but all of those have resulted in one or both girls growling, and a few have ended with my younger boy attacking one of the girls.
What are some additional strategies I can try to get the cats to live more harmoniously? The girls have lived with other cats in the past. Both of my boys came from a shelter with free roam rooms, so they have had experiences living with others. The girls are the ones hissing and growling, but my younger one is the one most likely to smack or pounce on someone. My older one is pretty oblivious and tends to just want in the room to eat the girls' food. I'd be grateful for any tips on integrating the two pairs.
I have a Feliway diffuser (though it's almost empty now) in the main bedroom. They have had a few face-to-face encounters, but all of those have resulted in one or both girls growling, and a few have ended with my younger boy attacking one of the girls.
What are some additional strategies I can try to get the cats to live more harmoniously? The girls have lived with other cats in the past. Both of my boys came from a shelter with free roam rooms, so they have had experiences living with others. The girls are the ones hissing and growling, but my younger one is the one most likely to smack or pounce on someone. My older one is pretty oblivious and tends to just want in the room to eat the girls' food. I'd be grateful for any tips on integrating the two pairs.