Hi everyone,
It has been a while since i have been here posting, but I do read off and on to keep up with kittens born etc.
For those of you who remember, my husband and I adopted 2 12 week old abandoned kittens who had already been on their own in an apartment without food or care for a couple weeks. We nursed them back to health and are the love of our lives
They are both now 8.5 months old and very healthy.
My question is about one of the kittens seems to be very attached tome I mean almost unnaturally so... when he is awake he moves around to every room that I am in. If I go to the bathroom, he is right on my heels. I leave and go to the kitchen, I literally count 5 seconds and here he comes trotting in. When sitting down to watch tv, he will crawl up on my and curl up to sleep (I know that sounds somewhat normal), but EVERY day - it is almost like that is part of his ritual to go to sleep. He does not always sleep on me but he will always be in the same room, about 2 feet away. I almost have to tiptoe once he's asleep so that he can remain snoozing for any length of time. I do not let them sleep in our bedroom.
He has always been this way, he is also the most vocal with me. Tundra is so much more independent. He loves to cuddle too, but once he has his lovin' he' s good to go and moves to one of his favorite spots to sleep. He follows me around to o but not as much as the other.
Am I giving him too much attention? I know I spoil him too much
Even my husband says : "your baby...." and then says we should have called him shadow.
Is there anything that I need to do about this? I just always thought that cats were very independent creatures and didn't even want to be around people so much....
Oh, one more thing...they do not do this to my husband, only me. Although Mr. Spoiled Man mews when my husband leaves to go to work. I swear he is like a baby.....
Please help - sorry so long.......
It has been a while since i have been here posting, but I do read off and on to keep up with kittens born etc.
For those of you who remember, my husband and I adopted 2 12 week old abandoned kittens who had already been on their own in an apartment without food or care for a couple weeks. We nursed them back to health and are the love of our lives
They are both now 8.5 months old and very healthy.
My question is about one of the kittens seems to be very attached tome I mean almost unnaturally so... when he is awake he moves around to every room that I am in. If I go to the bathroom, he is right on my heels. I leave and go to the kitchen, I literally count 5 seconds and here he comes trotting in. When sitting down to watch tv, he will crawl up on my and curl up to sleep (I know that sounds somewhat normal), but EVERY day - it is almost like that is part of his ritual to go to sleep. He does not always sleep on me but he will always be in the same room, about 2 feet away. I almost have to tiptoe once he's asleep so that he can remain snoozing for any length of time. I do not let them sleep in our bedroom.
He has always been this way, he is also the most vocal with me. Tundra is so much more independent. He loves to cuddle too, but once he has his lovin' he' s good to go and moves to one of his favorite spots to sleep. He follows me around to o but not as much as the other.
Am I giving him too much attention? I know I spoil him too much
Is there anything that I need to do about this? I just always thought that cats were very independent creatures and didn't even want to be around people so much....
Oh, one more thing...they do not do this to my husband, only me. Although Mr. Spoiled Man mews when my husband leaves to go to work. I swear he is like a baby.....
Please help - sorry so long.......