Oh God No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Oh Debby, I am so very, very sorry that your Merlin has died.
I know there's nothing I can say to help you to feel better at the moment but just know that I'm thinking of you and holding you close. You might remember I lost my beautiful Honey Boy not too long ago, the same way.

Please know that Merlin will be at the Rainbow Bridge, looking down on you from above and in no pain.


I found this poem helped me to get through.

You may no longer see my face
Or the sparkle in my eyes
You may no longer hold me near
despite your wistful cries

It was time to go beyond this world
Where long lost friends await
To you, I say goodbye for now
As I walk through heaven's gate

Please don't mourn for me
I'm not sure exactly when
But someday in the future
We will meet again
-Laura

Again Debby, I am so sorry. I feel so powerless, being on the other side of the world. If there's ANYTHING I can do, let me know.

Lots of love mate.
 

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That sucks sorry to hear that.... that's what happened to my cat Bones years ago, except he lived.
 
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Oh Debby, I'm so sorry for your loss, just reading you horror has bought me to tears, you have all your other kittys still so squeeze them extra tight. and to Merlin Blessed Be.
 

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Debby, I'm so sorry that you lost Merlin
It was so obvious in all your posts about him that you adored him, and he adored you. I don't know what else to say , other than that my positive thoughts and hugs go out to you
 

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(((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
I am so sorry to hear of your sweet Merlin.....Don't beat yourself up and I am not going to tell you I told you so....I know you are in alot of pain right so just know we are all here for you, and cry when you need to ok hon? Take care and come back when you feel like it...
 

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Oh Debby I am sooo sorry to hear this dear!
It is very hard to take, very very hard. I too have heard those words many times before... and made that trip down the road myself, sometimes to find my dead cat... or some strangers, it's never pleasent either way. I watched one of my cats get run over in front of me actually... that was the last cat... the decision for the cats being outdoors was up to my parents as it was their house. But that was the last straw, I just couldn't take it anymore!
No body should be telling you an "I told you so" cause it won't take away your pain and it wont bring back your beloved Merlin, gosh I feel sad about this.

I hope you are able to get over his death in good time.
 

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Deb,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss of Merlin. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. I know you loved him so. Please know that my deepest sympathies are with you.
 

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Debby - I am so sorry - I cannot even imagine the pain you are suffering right now! The thought of losing my Merlin makes my blood run cold. Please try to focus on all of the loving and tender times that you had with him and let that be your lasting memory of him!

I am here if you need me!
 

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Oh Debby, what tearful news. The loss of a loved one can be very agonizing and painful. Specialy so when it is sudden and unexpected. God bless you and your family and Merlin too.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.
 

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Oh Debby! I'm SO sorry to hear about Merlin.
I know he was your baby and that you'll miss him so much. Take all the time you need to mourn and remember that we are all here for you. We'll miss him too.
 

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Oh Honey
- I wish there is something I can say to make you feel better. Heads up, stay strong and just know that you were the best mom Merlin could have ever wished for.


 

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I feel so sorry and sad for you and Merlin! You are in my thoughts and I hope you recover from the pain of losing him, and remember all the wonderful times you shared with him. Take car of yourself and your family...
 

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Poor Merlin, and poor you! I'm very, very sorry to hear what happened! I think it's nice that you buried him under the tree planted in your father's memory - now you have a special place where you can feel close to both of them whenever you need to. My condolences.
 

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Debby, that is too sad!! I am soooo sorry to hear about your baby. I am sure Merlin loved you as much as you loved him, and you will see him again one day. I feel so sad now. I remember how much I cried when my cat Tara died, it felt like part of me died, too. Stay strong and come back to us when you're ready.
 

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Debby, I just saw this. I am SO sorry. We'll be here, if you need us and you've got my e-mail address. (((HUGS)))
 

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Hi im new to this site but im so sry for your loss. dont blame yourself it is not your fault. i wish u well im sooooo sry
 
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