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post #31 of 76
Debby, I don't know what to say, so the cats and I are sending you hugs and purrs. Take as long as you need to greive, because I know he was so close to your heart.
post #32 of 76
I'm so sad to hear about the loss of your furbaby Merlin. I will say many prayers for you both. I wish we could all be there to cry with you and give you lots of love and comfort. Take care of yourself and know that we really understand your grief.
post #33 of 76

That was a beautiful quote from a great movie.
post #34 of 76

I am sending my deepest condolences to you hon. I know Merlin wasn't just a 'pet' to you. That he was a soul mate and a friend. He loved you just as much as you loved him, and he couldn't have had a better person than you to love and care for him. You will get to visit him again, and what a joyous reunion that will be.

Until that day comes know that everyone here loves you, and will be here for you no matter what. Take all the time you need, and if there is anything that I can do for you in any fashion please do not hesitate to ask. *BIG HUGS and prayers going your way!*

We love ya Debby.
post #35 of 76
Oh Debby...

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I wish I could make it better for you. I, like so many others stated, don't know what to say at this sad time. My heart is breaking for you!

post #36 of 76
I'm so sorry Deb...What a horrible thing to go through. Take all the time you need.

Love ya hun!
post #37 of 76
OMG I have read and re read this thread about 8 times and I haven't built up enough courage until now to reply

I'm so sorry for your loss, , We love you and Please take as much time off as you need Babe !!

Love Sam&FurFollies
post #38 of 76
Debby dearest! as soon as I saw your email I knew something bad must have happened so I rushed in here. What horrible news!

I am so sorry about Merlin! I feel like I've lost him too in a sense - as I knew him from the time he was born. Please take all the time you need to grieve - we all sympathize with your sorrow.
post #39 of 76
Oh, Debby. I can't believe soething so horrible happened to you of all people...
My heart goes out to you, and I hope you'll be back as soon as possible (when you're ready), so we can embrace you and show you how much we care. I know how much these hurts, you will have to give it some time.

Debby, be strong for us!!

Im sending my love and (((((hugs))))) to you and hope you feel better soon.
post #40 of 76
Debby my darling. What a horribly sad thing to happen. I think we all have that special little kitty soul mate and I'm sure each one of us imagined this scenario played out in our own minds.

Nevertheless, until it actually happens, as it has to you now, we will be unable to truly imagine the pain and distress the loss of a deeply loved kitty causes.

I'm really at a loss as to what to say apart from I am thinking of you and praying hard that the pain gets better quickly and also that you have somebody close by with you to share your grief and comfort you.

Thanks for being so brave and coming to tell us about poor Merlin - sharing your sadness when all you want to do is curl up and cry.
post #41 of 76
Oh Debby, I am so very, very sorry that your Merlin has died. I know there's nothing I can say to help you to feel better at the moment but just know that I'm thinking of you and holding you close. You might remember I lost my beautiful Honey Boy not too long ago, the same way.

Please know that Merlin will be at the Rainbow Bridge, looking down on you from above and in no pain.

I found this poem helped me to get through.

You may no longer see my face
Or the sparkle in my eyes
You may no longer hold me near
despite your wistful cries

It was time to go beyond this world
Where long lost friends await
To you, I say goodbye for now
As I walk through heaven's gate

Please don't mourn for me
I'm not sure exactly when
But someday in the future
We will meet again

Again Debby, I am so sorry. I feel so powerless, being on the other side of the world. If there's ANYTHING I can do, let me know.

Lots of love mate.
post #42 of 76
That sucks sorry to hear that.... that's what happened to my cat Bones years ago, except he lived.
post #43 of 76
Oh Debby, I'm so sorry for your loss, just reading you horror has bought me to tears, you have all your other kittys still so squeeze them extra tight. and to Merlin Blessed Be.
post #44 of 76
Debby, I'm so sorry that you lost Merlin It was so obvious in all your posts about him that you adored him, and he adored you. I don't know what else to say , other than that my positive thoughts and hugs go out to you
post #45 of 76
I am so sorry to hear of your sweet Merlin.....Don't beat yourself up and I am not going to tell you I told you so....I know you are in alot of pain right so just know we are all here for you, and cry when you need to ok hon? Take care and come back when you feel like it...
post #46 of 76
Oh Debby I am sooo sorry to hear this dear! It is very hard to take, very very hard. I too have heard those words many times before... and made that trip down the road myself, sometimes to find my dead cat... or some strangers, it's never pleasent either way. I watched one of my cats get run over in front of me actually... that was the last cat... the decision for the cats being outdoors was up to my parents as it was their house. But that was the last straw, I just couldn't take it anymore!
No body should be telling you an "I told you so" cause it won't take away your pain and it wont bring back your beloved Merlin, gosh I feel sad about this.
I hope you are able to get over his death in good time.
post #47 of 76
I don't have any words right now. I am so sorry Debby.
post #48 of 76

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss of Merlin. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. I know you loved him so. Please know that my deepest sympathies are with you.
post #49 of 76
Debby - I am so sorry - I cannot even imagine the pain you are suffering right now! The thought of losing my Merlin makes my blood run cold. Please try to focus on all of the loving and tender times that you had with him and let that be your lasting memory of him!

I am here if you need me!
post #50 of 76
Oh Debby, what tearful news. The loss of a loved one can be very agonizing and painful. Specialy so when it is sudden and unexpected. God bless you and your family and Merlin too.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #51 of 76
Oh Debby! I'm SO sorry to hear about Merlin. I know he was your baby and that you'll miss him so much. Take all the time you need to mourn and remember that we are all here for you. We'll miss him too.
post #52 of 76
Oh Honey - I wish there is something I can say to make you feel better. Heads up, stay strong and just know that you were the best mom Merlin could have ever wished for.

post #53 of 76
post #54 of 76
I feel so sorry and sad for you and Merlin! You are in my thoughts and I hope you recover from the pain of losing him, and remember all the wonderful times you shared with him. Take car of yourself and your family...
post #55 of 76
Oh Debby I am so sorry!
post #56 of 76
Oh debby .
I am so sorry.
Please take all the time you need.
We'll all be here should you need anything.
post #57 of 76
Poor Merlin, and poor you! I'm very, very sorry to hear what happened! I think it's nice that you buried him under the tree planted in your father's memory - now you have a special place where you can feel close to both of them whenever you need to. My condolences.
post #58 of 76
Debby, that is too sad!! I am soooo sorry to hear about your baby. I am sure Merlin loved you as much as you loved him, and you will see him again one day. I feel so sad now. I remember how much I cried when my cat Tara died, it felt like part of me died, too. Stay strong and come back to us when you're ready.
post #59 of 76
Debby, I just saw this. I am SO sorry. We'll be here, if you need us and you've got my e-mail address. (((HUGS)))
post #60 of 76
Hi im new to this site but im so sry for your loss. dont blame yourself it is not your fault. i wish u well im sooooo sry
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