I'm sorry Nikki
I hope you and the animals can adjust well
You know I'm here if you need to talk
You know I'm here if you need to talk
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It's Over
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Thinking of you, Nikki.
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I just wanted to update you guys while i'm over at my sister's house (don't have internet at mine just yet!)
I'm doing pretty good so far.
I really really like my apartment a lot! I've got it mostly put together (still a few things to unpack but for the most part it's done. I just feel so relieved right now that I don't have to walk on eggshells or feel like i'm going to be screamed at or anything negative. It's doing me good being away from him right now. I love him with all of my heart, but I just can't be with him right now if he doesn't love me or want to make positive changes. Hopefully he will change and we can work things out but at this point I'm just relieved to be away from the hurt and pain. I think i'm slowly starting to heal.
Please send vibes I find a new job asap! I've been applying like crazy trying to find something but haven't had much luck just yet. Hopefully soon I'll find something!
I'm doing pretty good so far.
Please send vibes I find a new job asap! I've been applying like crazy trying to find something but haven't had much luck just yet. Hopefully soon I'll find something!
Nikki - CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! Big big hug, all the best on this exciting point of your life - you will see.... This can be the greatest event/time of your life... You will re-discover Nikki... It's going to be a great journey...
If you need people to cheer you up.... well, you will find lots of in here!
If you need people to cheer you up.... well, you will find lots of in here!
Originally Posted by babyharley
I'm sorry NikkiI hope you and the CATS can adjust well
Sending major prayers and vibes that you find a fantastic job very soon
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- #67
Just wanted to update you guys and let you know i'm doing good!
I've also got a pretty good lead on an additional job as well so keep your fingers crossed I get it!
I've also got a pretty good lead on an additional job as well so keep your fingers crossed I get it!
Thats greatOriginally Posted by StarryEyedTiGeR
Just wanted to update you guys and let you know i'm doing good!
I've also got a pretty good lead on an additional job as well so keep your fingers crossed I get it!
Fingers and everything else crossed for you sweetie!
I hope you get the job! Sending some kiwi vibes!!
I am just now reading about all of this. I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Many and prayers being sent for you.
Job vibes
just picked up on this thread, hope you are keeping well, and fingers crossed for the job hunting
Glad to hear you're doing well!
Vibes on the job as well I took a look at the apartment and it looks great!
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We're definitely getting a divorce
We're going to make a list of things we expect from one another and try to do things as deciently as possible.
Tonight Colin came over to my sister Kimmy's house so we could exchange things. I stayed in the house and my brother-in-law Jason acted as the mederator (sp?) going in between us. He definitely wants a divorce so I guess that we'll be filing soon...
Tonight Colin came over to my sister Kimmy's house so we could exchange things. I stayed in the house and my brother-in-law Jason acted as the mederator (sp?) going in between us. He definitely wants a divorce so I guess that we'll be filing soon...
AWWW! That makes it all feel rather final doesn't it.
I'm so sorry!
I'm so sorry!
right then, a blokes opinion.....
this time last year i broke up with my girlfriend, we hadnt been together as long as some of my other relationships, only just over a year. but it wasnt like any other relationship i had been in, and she said the same, we were both very much in love.
she had a little lad from a previous relationship, and i dont normally get on with kiddies but he was a real gem, so all was good. i felt i had finally met the right girl, she was everything i wanted.
sadly it was not all to last, she heard from a mutual friend about somthing from my past, lets just say i havnt always been the faithfull gentleman. but by the time i met her i was a changed man, and was fully ready to commit.
she said she couldnt be with someone she didnt trust, and as much as it broke her heart (she was even more upset than me) she ended it. andd only about 2 weeks before last xmas!
i was heartbroken, but, my family kept me company (it was pre-cat sadly so no kitty to cuddle) i got through xmas and new year, and after that everything slowly got better....
i sorted my life out, changed my cirlce of friends, left my job, went self employed, started dressing differently, ven changed my car ( a couple of times) but only about 3 months later my life was a better, happier place.
i could do what i wanted, when i wanted, come and go from my house as i pleased, life was good, and still is! im possibly more happy now than i would have been with her? who knows.
so thats my story, the bottom line is i know just what your going through, although i wasnt married, heartache is heartache. im not going to shower you in cliche's but life goes on, and as long as you keep busy, and most importantly dont try to get anyone new for a while (thats always a mistake!) you'll be fine!
trust your unlce jez, i know what im talking about! chin up hun, could be worse, you could be with an ugly mug like me!
hope all this helps? x
this time last year i broke up with my girlfriend, we hadnt been together as long as some of my other relationships, only just over a year. but it wasnt like any other relationship i had been in, and she said the same, we were both very much in love.
she had a little lad from a previous relationship, and i dont normally get on with kiddies but he was a real gem, so all was good. i felt i had finally met the right girl, she was everything i wanted.
sadly it was not all to last, she heard from a mutual friend about somthing from my past, lets just say i havnt always been the faithfull gentleman. but by the time i met her i was a changed man, and was fully ready to commit.
she said she couldnt be with someone she didnt trust, and as much as it broke her heart (she was even more upset than me) she ended it. andd only about 2 weeks before last xmas!
i was heartbroken, but, my family kept me company (it was pre-cat sadly so no kitty to cuddle) i got through xmas and new year, and after that everything slowly got better....
i sorted my life out, changed my cirlce of friends, left my job, went self employed, started dressing differently, ven changed my car ( a couple of times) but only about 3 months later my life was a better, happier place.
i could do what i wanted, when i wanted, come and go from my house as i pleased, life was good, and still is! im possibly more happy now than i would have been with her? who knows.
so thats my story, the bottom line is i know just what your going through, although i wasnt married, heartache is heartache. im not going to shower you in cliche's but life goes on, and as long as you keep busy, and most importantly dont try to get anyone new for a while (thats always a mistake!) you'll be fine!
trust your unlce jez, i know what im talking about! chin up hun, could be worse, you could be with an ugly mug like me!
hope all this helps? x
I thought that has to be a Brit posting, and i was right as soon as i looked at your location
He's right though Nikki, you have to get stronger and to do that you have to move forward.
tis true, i am indeed a brit, but i am also right, all will be ok and soon enough you'll look back and wont believe how upset you were?
trust me, im a doctor!
trust me, im a doctor!
Again your right. Several years ago i was there as well and feeling sorry for myself, until a neighbour started telling me how ill his wife was
When i think back now at the puffy eyes he made me have through crying
