I feel like a horrible cat mommy, but here goes:
I love my kitty to death, but my husband does not. Growing up in Egypt, apparently his cats were all quiet, passive and did not shed. Kitty sheds (although not so much anymore since I've been brushing her a few times every day), is very needy and meows for attention.
It's mainly the meowing that is driving my husband crazy. He wants a cat that does not meow. She's gotten better, but this morning after I got into the shower, she apparently stayed at the bedroom door and woke my husband up (she's kept out of the bedroom for asthma/allergy issues). He said that was the last straw and we're going to take her back to the humane society this weekend.
Now, I've asked him to be patient, but he views cats as something that shouldn't disrupt your life. Please, nothing negative about him, I'd just like some ideas on if it's possible to reduce her meowing.
When I come home, I pick her up and play with her for awhile before going about my business. Usually I play with her when I get up in the morning too. Unfortunately, he's getting home earlier than me today, and even though I told him if he plays with her for a bit, she'll be fine, he refuses and insists that he doesn't want anything to do with the cat. We live in a one bedroom apartment, so he can't really go anywhere to ignore her.
I've written up a little piece to give to the humane society if we bring her back, telling people what a wonderful cat she is and to please love her forever. I'm utterly devestated. I don't know if I'll get another cat after this, because cats aren't perfect, and I'm afraid my husband would insist that we keep returning them until we find one that is.
Please, any advice, and failing that, positive vibes sent for Kitty to find a home with someone who will love her just the way she is. She is an amazing cat and has brought a lot of happiness to me in the last week, and deserves a great home.
I love my kitty to death, but my husband does not. Growing up in Egypt, apparently his cats were all quiet, passive and did not shed. Kitty sheds (although not so much anymore since I've been brushing her a few times every day), is very needy and meows for attention.
It's mainly the meowing that is driving my husband crazy. He wants a cat that does not meow. She's gotten better, but this morning after I got into the shower, she apparently stayed at the bedroom door and woke my husband up (she's kept out of the bedroom for asthma/allergy issues). He said that was the last straw and we're going to take her back to the humane society this weekend.
Now, I've asked him to be patient, but he views cats as something that shouldn't disrupt your life. Please, nothing negative about him, I'd just like some ideas on if it's possible to reduce her meowing.
When I come home, I pick her up and play with her for awhile before going about my business. Usually I play with her when I get up in the morning too. Unfortunately, he's getting home earlier than me today, and even though I told him if he plays with her for a bit, she'll be fine, he refuses and insists that he doesn't want anything to do with the cat. We live in a one bedroom apartment, so he can't really go anywhere to ignore her.
I've written up a little piece to give to the humane society if we bring her back, telling people what a wonderful cat she is and to please love her forever. I'm utterly devestated. I don't know if I'll get another cat after this, because cats aren't perfect, and I'm afraid my husband would insist that we keep returning them until we find one that is.
Please, any advice, and failing that, positive vibes sent for Kitty to find a home with someone who will love her just the way she is. She is an amazing cat and has brought a lot of happiness to me in the last week, and deserves a great home.