Thank you all for your support. It does mean a lot to me.
It is comforting to know he lived a long and full life, with a happy and wonderful woman by his side, and 3 daughters and a son, and 4 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren and 3 step-great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild. When my sister and I were talking we said that he's with our mother, his oldest daugher now - and what a joyous reunion that had to be! Of course, even knowing that doesn't make it any easier for us down here.
No matter how long they live, or how happy their lives are, it's still a bitter pill to lose those we love. I'm just numb today, trying really hard to make it through the work day and hold it together.
It's always very hard to lose a close family member. Also, I can only imagine how hard this loss will be for your grandmother. What a rich and wonderful life they must have had over all those years!
I'm so sorry, hon. My heart goes out to your grandma... I dearly hope she will be able to continue to enjoy life and find strength in the virtually 71 years they had together.
My Grandpa always loved those chocolate covered cherries that you can only get around the holidays. Every year, and I mean every year we had to get him a box of those Queen Anne's Chocolate Covered Cherries. I think everyone in the family did - he had a stash and loved every one of them.
Personally, I can't stand those things, but came close with a drink - a Chocolate Covered Cherry shot (Dr. McGillicuddy's Cherry Schnapps and Godiva Dark Chocolate liquor, 1/2 and 1/2). So I did a shot, toasting to Grandpa tonight.
Word to the wise - you can't do shots when you're crying!