I saved a male blue persian six and a half months ago from straydom. My husband and I brought him home to our 15 yr. old female gray tabby. Well, after all this time - he still wants to kill her. She was always an only pet, and was never very fond of other animals that I tried over the years, to introduce her to. And now, even she has come around, and wants to be friends - but he is just not having any of it. He stalks her, he terrorizes her, and they've gotten into two fights. She wants to play with him, but he just wants to attack her. We've tried all kinds of things already...punishing him, locking him in his room, water (which I am against, but had no choice) - and even that doesn't faze him, cause his coat is so thick. I love them both very much, but I can't trust them together. Let alone, leave them alone together when we go out.
She is very tiny and delicate, and he is muscular and huge. And he uses his size to intimidate her. He just towers over her like a giant. And he scares her very much. She is healthy, and eating - and she is finally starting to act like her old self again, although not totally. And she is constantly looking over her shoulder. Hard to get into playing when you are always thinking someone is creeping up behind you....
I am not too familiar with persians - I am still learning. I know that their behavior is different from other cats. Is this typical of persians? I know that he is fighting over me, with her. I try to be fair to both of them - affectionatewise - when they are in the same room together. But I am finally at my wits end. I thought that he would of come around by now, but it is still the same. He is very jealous of her, and her being with me. Can anyone help? Has this happened to anyone of you? What can I do? I will not get rid of him (we went thru hell to get him), but I don't want her to be unhappy either. I love them both very much, and I wish that it could work. They would have so much fun together, if he would just let it happen. HELP!!!! This is breaking my heart!!!
She is very tiny and delicate, and he is muscular and huge. And he uses his size to intimidate her. He just towers over her like a giant. And he scares her very much. She is healthy, and eating - and she is finally starting to act like her old self again, although not totally. And she is constantly looking over her shoulder. Hard to get into playing when you are always thinking someone is creeping up behind you....
I am not too familiar with persians - I am still learning. I know that their behavior is different from other cats. Is this typical of persians? I know that he is fighting over me, with her. I try to be fair to both of them - affectionatewise - when they are in the same room together. But I am finally at my wits end. I thought that he would of come around by now, but it is still the same. He is very jealous of her, and her being with me. Can anyone help? Has this happened to anyone of you? What can I do? I will not get rid of him (we went thru hell to get him), but I don't want her to be unhappy either. I love them both very much, and I wish that it could work. They would have so much fun together, if he would just let it happen. HELP!!!! This is breaking my heart!!!