I've had Harley since Saturday night, and I was just wondering if her adjustment to living here was going normally or not.
Ever since she's come in the house, she's been hiding under my bed. She does come out to eat and use the litterbox, and she comes out to briefly explore the house. But she seems like she is painfully shy.
She seems to do best if everyone either moves slowly, or sits still completely. Any sudden moves or fast walking and she is off like a shot back underneath the bed. She's also very reluctant to let me touch her, though I've managed to get a few quick strokes on her back when she's close enough.
She does follow me around the house if I call her, and she's been winding around my legs purring. She's also been rolling on the floor from time to time, and she's starting to talk to me. I've also gotten the slow blink from her if I talk to her when she's under the bed. To me, it's like she's trying to be friendly, but something is holding her back.
She's also not very interested in playing - I've seen her playing by herself with her catnip mouse, and I've heard her chasing jingle balls around the living room at night. But when I try to initiate play with her, she looks confused.
The woman we got her from had her all of her life (she's about 4). I know that it's hard on her to suddenly be put into what amounts to a house with 3 complete strangers, and I know that it hasn't really been all that long since she's been here. I can't help think that maybe I'm doing something wrong, or that there's something I'm not doing altogether to help her. Is there anything I can do to help her adjust better?
Ever since she's come in the house, she's been hiding under my bed. She does come out to eat and use the litterbox, and she comes out to briefly explore the house. But she seems like she is painfully shy.
She seems to do best if everyone either moves slowly, or sits still completely. Any sudden moves or fast walking and she is off like a shot back underneath the bed. She's also very reluctant to let me touch her, though I've managed to get a few quick strokes on her back when she's close enough.
She does follow me around the house if I call her, and she's been winding around my legs purring. She's also been rolling on the floor from time to time, and she's starting to talk to me. I've also gotten the slow blink from her if I talk to her when she's under the bed. To me, it's like she's trying to be friendly, but something is holding her back.
She's also not very interested in playing - I've seen her playing by herself with her catnip mouse, and I've heard her chasing jingle balls around the living room at night. But when I try to initiate play with her, she looks confused.
The woman we got her from had her all of her life (she's about 4). I know that it's hard on her to suddenly be put into what amounts to a house with 3 complete strangers, and I know that it hasn't really been all that long since she's been here. I can't help think that maybe I'm doing something wrong, or that there's something I'm not doing altogether to help her. Is there anything I can do to help her adjust better?