Hi all
I'm hoping some of you may be able to offer me some advice please... I'll give you all the background so that you have the full picture.
I homed a rescued feral cat who they estimated was about 8 weeks when found in the wild, she was then in a rescue centre for 4-5 months as she was too wild to rehome and then she went to a foster home for a month where the fosterer had her on a harness and lead and tried to get her used to contact on a daily basis. At about 9 months old, I homed her. I already had a 9yo cat and was confident that the personality match would work - and it did, within 3 days they were playing together and cuddling up. They get on really well!
I have now had the feral (Rina) for 8 months and she has got to the stage where occasionally she will let me stroke her and she no longer scratches and freaks out when you pick up her (although you do have to back her into a corner before she'll sit still).
Anyway....we recently moved to a property with a garden (previously no outside space) as I really wanted my two cats to be able to go outside. I had planned to keep them in for two weeks to get them used to the new place then slowly introduce them to the garden, however, after just one week, Rina got out through an open window and didn't come back. I was devastated but also my other cat (Maud) appeared at a complete loss too.
After 2 weeks a neighbour phoned to say Rina was in her garden but she couldn't catch her. After a further week, we caught Rina with a trap and now I finally have her home again and she seems happy, but I would really like at some point for her to use the garden - without running away!!
At this point, I would just like to say that it has very much been on my mind that possibly Rina is happier outside in the wild and maybe I should just let her go, but all the rescue centres advise that although she would survive, they don't encourage strays and she would be much healthier if she could be kept warm, fed and inoculated. Also, Rina does seem very happy with us - particularly playing and cuddling with Maud - so please don't crash down on me for keeping her; I already have a huge battle of conscience about that.
Ideally, what I'd like to achieve is letting Rina into the garden so she can roam at free will but convincing her to come home for dinner! Does anyone have any experience of this or can anyone offer advice as to how to train her to come home for food? Unfortunately, just calling her name and rattling a box of biscuits hasn't proven successful to date. (BTW - She is now about 18 months old and has a trainable nature but it takes a lot of time and trust).
Thanks very much...
Natalie
I'm hoping some of you may be able to offer me some advice please... I'll give you all the background so that you have the full picture.
I homed a rescued feral cat who they estimated was about 8 weeks when found in the wild, she was then in a rescue centre for 4-5 months as she was too wild to rehome and then she went to a foster home for a month where the fosterer had her on a harness and lead and tried to get her used to contact on a daily basis. At about 9 months old, I homed her. I already had a 9yo cat and was confident that the personality match would work - and it did, within 3 days they were playing together and cuddling up. They get on really well!
I have now had the feral (Rina) for 8 months and she has got to the stage where occasionally she will let me stroke her and she no longer scratches and freaks out when you pick up her (although you do have to back her into a corner before she'll sit still).
Anyway....we recently moved to a property with a garden (previously no outside space) as I really wanted my two cats to be able to go outside. I had planned to keep them in for two weeks to get them used to the new place then slowly introduce them to the garden, however, after just one week, Rina got out through an open window and didn't come back. I was devastated but also my other cat (Maud) appeared at a complete loss too.
After 2 weeks a neighbour phoned to say Rina was in her garden but she couldn't catch her. After a further week, we caught Rina with a trap and now I finally have her home again and she seems happy, but I would really like at some point for her to use the garden - without running away!!
At this point, I would just like to say that it has very much been on my mind that possibly Rina is happier outside in the wild and maybe I should just let her go, but all the rescue centres advise that although she would survive, they don't encourage strays and she would be much healthier if she could be kept warm, fed and inoculated. Also, Rina does seem very happy with us - particularly playing and cuddling with Maud - so please don't crash down on me for keeping her; I already have a huge battle of conscience about that.
Ideally, what I'd like to achieve is letting Rina into the garden so she can roam at free will but convincing her to come home for dinner! Does anyone have any experience of this or can anyone offer advice as to how to train her to come home for food? Unfortunately, just calling her name and rattling a box of biscuits hasn't proven successful to date. (BTW - She is now about 18 months old and has a trainable nature but it takes a lot of time and trust).
Thanks very much...
Natalie