I just had to send her an email putting her in her place. As I'm sure some of you have picked up from other threads, I'm getting married. Well I told my parent's that I didn't want a bridal party and they convinced me that I HAD to ask my sister to be my MOH anyway or she'd be very offended, etc. Well...I gave in to that. I am now having to think of ways to still honor her as a MOH at the wedding, but I don't want her walking in front of me, standing next to me, etc. I told my mom that I didn't want a father daughter dance, first dance...well she's trying to tell me I have to do all the traditional stuff or I shouldn't be having a wedding.
In the email I told her "No cake, no garter toss [no garter for that matter], no official dances...". I don't know how to make her understand that we want to celebrate with family and friends, but we're not into all the outdated nonsense of a "normal" wedding.
I just want to note that I have been to many beautiful weddings where all of these things were done, and I do enjoy tradition, it's just not "us".
I just want to note that I have been to many beautiful weddings where all of these things were done, and I do enjoy tradition, it's just not "us".