My parents took both of the boys to SeaWorld for the weekend to give Brandon and I a break from them
But before they left, I was "tattled" on
I told my oldest son to pack 3 days worth of clothes, socks, underwear, shirts, etc.. Well, he asked where he was going and I told him "It's a cool suprise, just pack your things"
He had an absolute meltdown and said he wouldn't pack until I told him. So I said "Fine, don't pack. But you won't get the suprise if you don't"
He stormed off to his room and closed the door.
About 15 mins later I got a phone call from his dad.
He called his dad and told him I wasn't allowing him to have "the big suprise" and Deacon (his little brother) was allowed to.
I got so angry!
I hung up on his dad and about 15 mins later, my mom called..
My ex husband called my mother and told her I was being mean to Justice and he wasn't allowed to go to Seaworld and that Deacon shouldn't be allowed to go if Justice isn't allowed!
Mind you, Deacon is NOT his son.
My mom knows I know how to handle the boys and didn't think anything of it but just called to let me know, my 10yr old son is "tattling on me"
On top of it all, my ex ruined the suprise and told Justice where they were going to for the weekend
My son came in and apologized for having a tantrum and said he was packing.
When I told him he needed to stop calling his father and telling on me every time I discipline him he started having a crying fit and stormed away again!
When I followed him into his room he was calling his dad... AGAIN!
So I took the phone away and he threatened me that if I didn't give it back, he was going to tell Deacon what the suprise was!
Of course I didn't give him the phone back and told him if he even breathed about them going to Seaworld that he would end up sitting in his room the entire weekend while Deacon went and he didn't.
I ended up letting Justice go because my parents already paid for the ticket and didn't want to see them lose the money but I think I'm going to get Justice some individual therapy because I can't handle it anymore!
Anymore it seems to be that he thinks he's the parent and I'm the child!
Sorry... I had to vent.
But before they left, I was "tattled" on
I told my oldest son to pack 3 days worth of clothes, socks, underwear, shirts, etc.. Well, he asked where he was going and I told him "It's a cool suprise, just pack your things"
He had an absolute meltdown and said he wouldn't pack until I told him. So I said "Fine, don't pack. But you won't get the suprise if you don't"
He stormed off to his room and closed the door.
About 15 mins later I got a phone call from his dad.
He called his dad and told him I wasn't allowing him to have "the big suprise" and Deacon (his little brother) was allowed to.
I got so angry!
My ex husband called my mother and told her I was being mean to Justice and he wasn't allowed to go to Seaworld and that Deacon shouldn't be allowed to go if Justice isn't allowed!
My mom knows I know how to handle the boys and didn't think anything of it but just called to let me know, my 10yr old son is "tattling on me"
On top of it all, my ex ruined the suprise and told Justice where they were going to for the weekend
My son came in and apologized for having a tantrum and said he was packing.
When I told him he needed to stop calling his father and telling on me every time I discipline him he started having a crying fit and stormed away again!
When I followed him into his room he was calling his dad... AGAIN!
So I took the phone away and he threatened me that if I didn't give it back, he was going to tell Deacon what the suprise was!
Of course I didn't give him the phone back and told him if he even breathed about them going to Seaworld that he would end up sitting in his room the entire weekend while Deacon went and he didn't.
I ended up letting Justice go because my parents already paid for the ticket and didn't want to see them lose the money but I think I'm going to get Justice some individual therapy because I can't handle it anymore!
Anymore it seems to be that he thinks he's the parent and I'm the child!
Sorry... I had to vent.