well, dh's dad is in the hospital now...he had been having seizures a couple nights ago, and he also chose to have no life support whatsoever....dh is really having a hard time with it....he still choses not to go see his dad, and I totally support his decision, but he said to me last night that he felt like he needed some counseling to help him deal with this.....I am looking into this sometime today..just thought I would share with you all what is going on and I haven't been posting nearly as much as usual....I love my dh very much and it is hard seeing him this way...