Or would you consider this kinda morbid?
My s/o is watching some program about 9/11, where they're reliving the horrors of that day.
I can hear the sirens wailing and the people screaming from where I'm at in the computer room, and it's bringing back memories of that horrific day. It's making me feel sick to my stomach, and I feel like I did on that terrible day. I know he'd turn it off if I asked him to, but I don't feel as if I have the right to tell him what he can or cannot watch on TV.
Maybe it's just me, but I guess I don't see the point in reliving something that was so horrible. I can see the point of not "forgetting", but there are better ways to honor those from that horrid day. To me, it's kinda like going through an abusive relationship, and going back again & again - if that makes any sense. Why relive something that caused so much pain??
He'll watch a lot of Vietnam War stuff too - even though it upsets him and causes him extreme discomfort (he was in that war). I don't understand just why, when it obviously upsets him so.
Is it just me, or is anyone else bothered by reliving 9/11?
My s/o is watching some program about 9/11, where they're reliving the horrors of that day.
Maybe it's just me, but I guess I don't see the point in reliving something that was so horrible. I can see the point of not "forgetting", but there are better ways to honor those from that horrid day. To me, it's kinda like going through an abusive relationship, and going back again & again - if that makes any sense. Why relive something that caused so much pain??
He'll watch a lot of Vietnam War stuff too - even though it upsets him and causes him extreme discomfort (he was in that war). I don't understand just why, when it obviously upsets him so.
Is it just me, or is anyone else bothered by reliving 9/11?