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If anyone can spare a prayer or two for my stepmom and stepsis, they can use it. 6 years ago today my youngest step sis got killed in a car wreck. She was a great girl, I loved her dearly. She was 15. We all miss her, but they have a little harder time with it then I do. I have cried today, but they are worse then me.

Then 7 years ago tomorrow was when my mom passed. I tell people that we just like to get it all done quickly. 2 days, two people lost, within a year of each other. They are both in a better place.

Everyone be safe.

What a very sad sad loss for you. I will send out a prayer especially for you and your family during this difficult time

I'm so sorry for how hard these two days must be... many healing thoughts to you and your family.

Wow, how hard for the family

Sending hugs to you and yours

thank you guys. I appreciate it. I am more worried for my stepmom and sis in mind. To loose someone when you know they are going... it is expected. She had just turned 50 1 day shy of a month before. She put herself on morphine, knowing she would go. I knew it was coming when I saw her signature on the paper for it.

My stepsis on the other hand was just ripped from our lives instantly. I feel so bad because I know to loose someone so young is harder. She was only 15. That is much more difficult. It hurts me, but they hurt deeper I think. They knew her for her 15 years, I only had the pleasure of knowing her for 4 or 5 years.

Be safe.

So sorry about your step Sister and Mom.
Sept 13th will be 9 years since my Mom died from Breast Cancer.

Originally Posted by mews2much

So sorry about your step Sister and Mom.
Sept 13th will be 9 years since my Mom died from Breast Cancer.

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wow, I am sooooo... sorry... I don't like when mom's die.

Sending prayers and vibes out to your family
We lost my nephew to a stranger/murder when he was 18, then less than a year later, my former husband to a mining accident, and a few months after that, my eldest brother was killed by a drunken driver. 3 sudden deaths, 2 involving police & autopsies, etc....by far and away, the most difficult for the family was losing an 18 year old.
In fact, my mom joined a group called Compassionate Friends, and the common consensus of their group was that the young children thru young adult was the most painful.
You are right, they are all in a Better Place; for those of us left behind, it remains painful, as the river of Time moves them further away.

I will pray for you and you family. I am so sorry to hear of this.