This is supposed to be the happiest day of my life and I am just a bunch of freakin' nerves just hoping I don't forget anything and everything goes right.
Well, if that isn't enough, I did talk to my aunt tonight. She is coming in from out of town and I wanted to know if they could snag the cake for us. That conversation turned into 45 minutes. She pretty much is being like a mother would with a kid's wedding. My own mother really just kind of let me do what I want and didn't give me guidance so in a lot of ways I do appreciate what my aunt is doing (And she is paying for the reception as a gift!). She wanted to know the order of things, people's names, is there a blessing, is there snacks before dinner, etc and so on. *sigh*
She then asked me if my grandma was coming (my mother's mom). I told her she wasn't. My grandma is 81 years old and physically can have a hard time getting around and she would be coming 2.5 hours with my uncle. I understand that when you get older like that, sometimes you just aren't comfortable being away too far from home, etc. Plus, I don't think she feels as well as we think, etc. So, my aunt has to add on that she thinks that is self-fish and la de da of her. I love my aunt to death (step-aunt), but this is my GRANDMA and I am the only GRANDCHILD and I would die for my grandma. I was TERRIBLY offended by what she said, but I didn't say anything to her really...just that I didn't think she felt very well lately. I could sit here and CRY over this!!
Am I wrong? I mean, should I just blow it off to the wind?? I feel so bad that she could say such a thing about someone that is so important to me!
Well, if that isn't enough, I did talk to my aunt tonight. She is coming in from out of town and I wanted to know if they could snag the cake for us. That conversation turned into 45 minutes. She pretty much is being like a mother would with a kid's wedding. My own mother really just kind of let me do what I want and didn't give me guidance so in a lot of ways I do appreciate what my aunt is doing (And she is paying for the reception as a gift!). She wanted to know the order of things, people's names, is there a blessing, is there snacks before dinner, etc and so on. *sigh*
She then asked me if my grandma was coming (my mother's mom). I told her she wasn't. My grandma is 81 years old and physically can have a hard time getting around and she would be coming 2.5 hours with my uncle. I understand that when you get older like that, sometimes you just aren't comfortable being away too far from home, etc. Plus, I don't think she feels as well as we think, etc. So, my aunt has to add on that she thinks that is self-fish and la de da of her. I love my aunt to death (step-aunt), but this is my GRANDMA and I am the only GRANDCHILD and I would die for my grandma. I was TERRIBLY offended by what she said, but I didn't say anything to her really...just that I didn't think she felt very well lately. I could sit here and CRY over this!!
Am I wrong? I mean, should I just blow it off to the wind?? I feel so bad that she could say such a thing about someone that is so important to me!