I have a siamese and I have an SO with NO cat experience
my SO has only ever had dogs (I've always had cats) but he loves cats and always admired the siamease which happens to be my favourite breed
When we adopted and ended up with a siamese we were both thrilled and it is a very happy home...... HOWEVER
Cello is a siamese, and is a cat in general, which means he has his quirks. My brother recently moved in with us, and at night his door sometimes shuts (we have a fairly open door policy...... but the wind blows it shut occasionally)
being a very vocal siamese and a cat in general, he meows loudly whenever a door in his domain is not open, especially at 4 am and he does it when ANY door is closed....... he wakes me up in protest as only a cat can do.
Now what I DO when this happens is scoop him up, put him under the covers beside me, let him smurrgle my ear for a couple minutes and he generally goes to sleep beside me.... problem solved
now my SO has grown up in a family where they yell at the dog, tell it to lie down or whatever when it is 'misbehaving' (no hitting or anything....just discipline, which is fine for a dog...) if I don't wake up to the cat and he does he will pick him up, take him in the living room, pin him down and tell him NO. I get SO FRUSTERATED when he does this though (particularily the pinning down). We talked about it and he hasn't done it since, but he's only had dogs and doesn't understand that cat's aren't dogs, and that with cats any form of 'aggresion' or discipline in general does not compute, they don't understand that we are annoyed with them and they shouldn't do that.......... that there is no real way to 'punish' a cat, and that being vocal is just the way of the siamese.
*sigh* I guess this isn't really behaviour of the cat (well sort of, but I know why cello does it and how to fix it..... cuddles!) but more behaviour of the human.
he's learning but it is a slow process...... *sigh*
When we adopted and ended up with a siamese we were both thrilled and it is a very happy home...... HOWEVER
Cello is a siamese, and is a cat in general, which means he has his quirks. My brother recently moved in with us, and at night his door sometimes shuts (we have a fairly open door policy...... but the wind blows it shut occasionally)
being a very vocal siamese and a cat in general, he meows loudly whenever a door in his domain is not open, especially at 4 am and he does it when ANY door is closed....... he wakes me up in protest as only a cat can do.
Now what I DO when this happens is scoop him up, put him under the covers beside me, let him smurrgle my ear for a couple minutes and he generally goes to sleep beside me.... problem solved
now my SO has grown up in a family where they yell at the dog, tell it to lie down or whatever when it is 'misbehaving' (no hitting or anything....just discipline, which is fine for a dog...) if I don't wake up to the cat and he does he will pick him up, take him in the living room, pin him down and tell him NO. I get SO FRUSTERATED when he does this though (particularily the pinning down). We talked about it and he hasn't done it since, but he's only had dogs and doesn't understand that cat's aren't dogs, and that with cats any form of 'aggresion' or discipline in general does not compute, they don't understand that we are annoyed with them and they shouldn't do that.......... that there is no real way to 'punish' a cat, and that being vocal is just the way of the siamese.
*sigh* I guess this isn't really behaviour of the cat (well sort of, but I know why cello does it and how to fix it..... cuddles!) but more behaviour of the human.
he's learning but it is a slow process...... *sigh*