Ok, well from yesterday when I posted about dh's dad having cancer, and brain tumors ok..well, dh was never close to his dad.to him, he was just a dead beat dad..welllll..I have a problem....his dad lives all the way up in Omaha Nebraska, and it takes about 7-8 hours to drive there...having to fill the tank up at least 3 different times...costing about $60 or more on the way there then again $60 on the way back home....well,,,,he DOESN'T want to go...he doesn't want to talk to him either....he has his personal reasons for it, and I don't pressure him in doing what he doesn't want to do but his mom and sister are practically telling him he is going and that is that....they want to go this weekend, or before...my husband needs work, and he can't just jump out and take off of work right now.....I told him he ought to at least call him if he isn't going to go up there, but what makes me so mad is his sister and mom just keep pressuring him into it..I am about to step in to this, and tell them to back off because it is ticking him off and me as well...i know I don't like it when people pressure me into something I don't want to do, but what would you do if you were me? stay out of it, or say what I feel??
I want to stay out of it, but I swear if they keep calling him and bugging him at work they will hear something from me....they have no respect when it comes to things like this...no matter what everyone else feels, they don't care what it is, they think they are right, and everyone should do what they say.....I don't want to but man.....it is just going to be hard to stay quiet..I have a big mouth and it is hard to keep it shut when something is disturbing me or anyone in my family...:O)
I know I am bad..i just want them to let him be, and let him make the decision and they respect how he feels....it isn't easy for anyone right now and just because he doesn't feel like they do, they shouldn't pressure him ya know...ohh well..I will hush now....Ido thinkhe should call though..I am sorry to bore you all with this....I am just aggrivated and frustrated...
I want to stay out of it, but I swear if they keep calling him and bugging him at work they will hear something from me....they have no respect when it comes to things like this...no matter what everyone else feels, they don't care what it is, they think they are right, and everyone should do what they say.....I don't want to but man.....it is just going to be hard to stay quiet..I have a big mouth and it is hard to keep it shut when something is disturbing me or anyone in my family...:O)
I know I am bad..i just want them to let him be, and let him make the decision and they respect how he feels....it isn't easy for anyone right now and just because he doesn't feel like they do, they shouldn't pressure him ya know...ohh well..I will hush now....Ido thinkhe should call though..I am sorry to bore you all with this....I am just aggrivated and frustrated...