Ok so I live in a small 2 bed/2 bath apt and for awhile it was just my b/f and I. Well my best friend is going through her devorice and has been seeing this guy who some how ended up living with us. I am a VERY neat person! My friends tease me about being OCD but I like things nice and neat and clean. With are apt being the size it is it really dose not take much for it to look like its a mess. Well this guy that is living with us has been here for 4weeks now? And he used to come vist us alot due to the intire situtation Bre was only able to vist him when he was here. So one would think that a 26 year old man would be able to figure out how to pick up after him self right? WRONG! I spent all morning in the kitchen cleaning and putting away dishes. He wakes up at NOON and goes in the kitchen to make eggs and a bagel. He some how uses 3 plates, a bowl, 2 frying pans, and a cookie sheet. Which are all sitting out on the counter where he left him.... The cabnet door's are left open and food is left out. This happens EVERY TIME he usues the kitchen It is SOO old!! I say something to him EVERY DAY about it, and its not just in the kitchen that this happens! We keep Flower's cat box in the guest bathroom because when it was just Eric and I we never really used that bath room and when he moved in we really don't have a place to put it. Well apperently it's rocket science to not close that door when you'r done in the bathroom. I walk down the hall and have to open it up everytime! Here is the best part! He does not work, he does not pay rent, he does not help us out with money AT ALL! In the 4 weeks he has been here he couldnt have thanked us?? We have a baby on the way I am due Jan 24th and we really need to be saving money! He eats more then Eric and I do in a week. He ate TWO packs of lunch meat one ONE sandwhich...... thats like 3weeks worth of sandwhiches for the boh of us. Who does that?!?! Oh my fave was when he cloged up the bathroom toilet and didnt say anything untill 12am on a sunday night... so I went out and got a plundger and just left it in there for him to do the next morning.... it sat there in the bag for TWO days before Eric finally get fed up and plundged it. On top of all this he compalins to my best friend about how hard things are for him here. !!!!!! What is so hard about his life he sits on his comp 24/7 plaing games, eats free food, and dosent clean up after himself!! CRY MORE! He makes SOO many condenciding comments about how "getto" are apt is and how "getto" we live. News flash! WELCOME TO REAL LIFE!! We do ok we are not rich, but were not poor. Money can get tight, but were young and doing everything we can!! I just don't get it and his comments really hurt my feelings. I just dont know what to do about him any more. Talking to him is like talking to a brick wall!!!! OH! the thing that really just ticks me off is he is mean to my babies!!!! He tells Flower all the time about how bad she is and how she does not beheavie and all he ever says to my pup is NO. AND he blames HIS mess on them!! One night Bre came over and got on to him about his mess and he told her that Comet and Flower came into his room and messed up his stuff...... she laughed so hard my babies don't get into anything and they have NEVER messed up stuff. Unless it is offered to them they really could care less about it!! Sorry this is so long just needed to vent!
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9/2/08 at 1:23pm