My best friend disappeared . . .

CALL THE POLICE!!!!
Even if it a false alarm, it is best to be sure!

You should take action! Something could be really wrong.
If her parents won't do something then you should, I think.
Please keep us posted.

OK, I have news. Finally. She left a message on Andrew's answering machine. (He's her bf, and Alex's twin. Interesting, huh?) He wasn't home when she called, but she said she was OK, she hadn't had access to a phone, sorry she hasn't called, and "everything is just crazy." Didn't say where she is, what happened, when she's calling back, how to get ahold of her, why she left, anything!! So NOT helpful.

But, at least we know she's OK. Now we just have to see what the heck is going on. Andrew's mad, now that he's not scared, that she went off with her ex-bf. So . . . this may go from "my friend is missing" to "the break-up of the century." I talked to Andrew and he said he'll listen to what she says, but if she doesn't have a good reason to just do this and leave him hanging, he's breaking up with her. So . . . I'll keep you guys posted. That's it for now.

At least I don't have to call the police. *Sheesh.*

And you too will have a talk with her to explain that this is no way to treat a friend. I don't think that there is much that would excuse a friend for treating me that way. She has obviously not thought about what this has meant to you, and at my age, I would not put up with that.

Oh, yes, I'm going to have a talk with her. She and I were supposed to get together last week, too, and she just never called me back.

And she's supposed to be my MOH next summer? I'm sitting here like, uh-uh, if you can't depend on you, I don't want you in my wedding!! I mean, I'm not going to tell her I don't want her anymore, yet . . . but it IS worrying that if she's so unreliable about a PHONE CALL, what is she going to do with my wedding?

OMG!! I just read this!!! I would have been scared for her too!! I hope she realizes how worried she made you and everyone else. I hope she will tell you what on earth is going on with her!!!

Her parents cancelled her cell phone today. I guess that last time, that's how they got her to come home. I wish they hadn't though, that was my only hope of getting ahold of her. I know she's safe and all, but I still would like to talk to her and find out WHAT ON EARTH happened. *sigh* I'll keep you posted. That's all that happened today.

Gosh, I'm gone for a day or so and look what happens! I'm so sorry you had to go through all this... I'm sure there's a good explaination. There has to be. I guess you'll just have to wait and see....

...at least she's OK!!!

I hate to be a doom monger, but a message on an answering machine does not necessarily mean she is ok. If she left no way to reach her so you could find out for yourself that she is ok, I would still call the police or at least discuss the possibility with her parents. People can be forced to make phone calls. I hope she is ok, but I wouldn't take it for granted behind a phone message.

Well, at least you heard from her. I think there must be something wrong with her parents that they aren't taking action or being more concerned for her wellbeing. I wonder if she has had a tough time at home, and this may have prompted the whole "running away". You should have a long talk with her about how much this affected you and your relationship.

I am so sorry Viva

Sam