Hi Becky! I'm so sorry about your kitty! What was his/her name? We have a real soft spot in our hearts for Tuxedo kitties. Our Sheldon is a black and white, and within a day or two we're bringing his brother home. I'll be thinking about your cutie.
I've gone ahead and moved this thread to the Crossing the Bridge forum. But there is a "redirect" in the Cat Lounge, which makes it easy for people to link over here to see your beauty.