Hey all,
I'm having some problems at work. We share office space with another company, so there are always one or two other women up at the front desk with me (I'm a receptionist). I'm part time, so my employers have another receptionist who comes in days that I don't and on Fridays at the same time as me.
My issue is that the ladies from the other office clearly, CLEARLY prefer her over me. And it's more than that.. it's like they don't want to make even the slightest effort to talk to me or converse with me. It's almost to the point where they don't like me, it feels.
I come in, am always the first to say "Good morning!" and they politely say it back.. Ask how they are, "oh, good".. Ask what's new "Oh, nothing.." Really? Nothing at all? "Nope!"
So then we sit in silence. Now on FRIDAYS when the other girl comes in and I'm up front, they give the other girl an enthusiastic "Hey! How are you doing? How did this that and the other thing go? I bet it went well!" Chit chat chit chat. Such a contrast to my crickets.
I'll point out some intersting news story I'm reading and all I get are one or two word answers.. The other girl makes a statement "Oh my gosh! McCain picked a woman candidate! Wow!" And explosion of chit chat ensues.
It's bothering me to no end. I am wondering if I should ask them if there is something I can do/not do to make them more comfortable with me, if there is some issue they're not mentioning, but.. I know I have to see them every time I come to work. If that went badly, that could be awkward!
I realize there's a bit of an age difference, the women at the other office being 35-45, and I'm 19.. but the other receptionist in my office is only 23. I think they connect better because she has an 8 year old child, but.. well, I don't know.. It doesn't seem like it should be this one sided, child or not, in the connection department.
Does anyone have any advice in this situation?
I'm having some problems at work. We share office space with another company, so there are always one or two other women up at the front desk with me (I'm a receptionist). I'm part time, so my employers have another receptionist who comes in days that I don't and on Fridays at the same time as me.
My issue is that the ladies from the other office clearly, CLEARLY prefer her over me. And it's more than that.. it's like they don't want to make even the slightest effort to talk to me or converse with me. It's almost to the point where they don't like me, it feels.
I come in, am always the first to say "Good morning!" and they politely say it back.. Ask how they are, "oh, good".. Ask what's new "Oh, nothing.." Really? Nothing at all? "Nope!"
So then we sit in silence. Now on FRIDAYS when the other girl comes in and I'm up front, they give the other girl an enthusiastic "Hey! How are you doing? How did this that and the other thing go? I bet it went well!" Chit chat chit chat. Such a contrast to my crickets.
I'll point out some intersting news story I'm reading and all I get are one or two word answers.. The other girl makes a statement "Oh my gosh! McCain picked a woman candidate! Wow!" And explosion of chit chat ensues.
It's bothering me to no end. I am wondering if I should ask them if there is something I can do/not do to make them more comfortable with me, if there is some issue they're not mentioning, but.. I know I have to see them every time I come to work. If that went badly, that could be awkward!
I realize there's a bit of an age difference, the women at the other office being 35-45, and I'm 19.. but the other receptionist in my office is only 23. I think they connect better because she has an 8 year old child, but.. well, I don't know.. It doesn't seem like it should be this one sided, child or not, in the connection department.
Does anyone have any advice in this situation?