Ugh, I'm sorry to hear that, I know that its a terrible shock to receive that kind of news! Several years ago we left for church one Sunday morning, and on the way, noticed that there were several police cars at one of the churches about five miles from our home, no sooner than we arrived twenty miles further up the road, my aunt (her husband was the sherrif at the time) came into church and told us that a guy who had gone to church with us, went to school with me, basically grew up with him had been found murdered in the church parking lot where we saw all the police cars!