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post #1 of 14
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I called my mom yesterday b/c I hadn't heard from her in awhile, and she informs me that her husband is really sick, and she was fixin' to take him to the hospital. They've only been married for not quite a year, and are still basically "newlyweds". My mom would be totally devestated if anything happened to him. She's waited all her life for a "decent" man (her first two marriages were abusive ones - including being married to my dad), and she has finally found a good & loving man to share her life with. It would be horrible if anything happened to him. Please keep them in your thoughts & prayers.

I also received the date for my disability court hearing (which I'm extremely anxious over), and would appreciate some "good luck" vibes for that. It's scheduled for Sept. 10th.

I know how well TCS vibes work, and would appreciate any you can spare - especially for my mom & her husband.

so much!

Tiff
post #2 of 14
Lots of get well vibes for your stepdad and good luck vibes for you coming your way,,,,
post #3 of 14

: )
post #4 of 14
For all of you
post #5 of 14
I´m so sorry about that dear Tiff.......of course that you can count with my best wishes my friend....



PS.. Keep us update about it....
post #6 of 14
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I've been trying to call my mom to find out what's going on with her hubby, and she hasn't returned any of my calls. I even sent her an e-mail, and she hasn't responded to that, either. It's really beginning to concern me..

Not only am I concerned about her hubby, I'm also worried about her now, too. I'm really afraid that if anything happens to her hubby, she'll go over the edge and do something to herself. She's not exactly emotionally stable anymore, and a few years ago, she tried commiting suicide when she got herself into a serious financial bind. She had been having a lot of physical problems, and she was having to take a lot of different meds, which I guess didn't set too well with her and the meds had an effect on her mental stability as well. Then when the bill collectors starting harassing her, it got to be too much for her, and tried to end her misery. I'm afraid if she loses her husband, it will end up being too much for her to handle.

I wish she would call and ease my mind.
post #7 of 14
Is there anyone near to her that can go check on her? A friend of her's you know?

Chances are, her husband is in the hospital and she's probably not leaving his side for much or if at all.

Do you know the hospital she would be going to? Maybe you could ask if her husband is in (if they give that info out).
post #8 of 14
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Is there anyone near to her that can go check on her? A friend of her's you know?

Chances are, her husband is in the hospital and she's probably not leaving his side for much or if at all.

Do you know the hospital she would be going to? Maybe you could ask if her husband is in (if they give that info out).
they sometimes won't let you use cells in certain areas of the hospital, either.
sending my & that everything's ok!
post #9 of 14
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Is there anyone near to her that can go check on her? A friend of her's you know?
No. She lives in Arizona, and she's only been living there for about a year. She moved there after she got married. I've never been there, and I don't know anyone there, either.

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Chances are, her husband is in the hospital and she's probably not leaving his side for much or if at all.
That's what I was thinking, too.

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Do you know the hospital she would be going to? Maybe you could ask if her husband is in (if they give that info out).
She finally answered an e-mail I sent to her, so at least now I know what's going on and all.

He had some kind of infection in his hip, which caused him to be so sick. They did surgery on him - which went fairly well considering the circumstances, but while they were doing the surgery, they also found out that he has some heart problems, too. He'll be in the hospital for awhile, and then they're gonna move him to a rehabilitation center.

I also found out that my aunt is in the hospital, too. She's having problems with her kidneys, and they think it may be cancer. I sent an e-mail to my cousin b/c I don't have her phone number to call her (I've been trying to call my aunt, and I became concerned when I didn't hear back from her, so that's when I contacted my cousin via an e-mail). Anyway, I'm waiting for my cousin to contact me, so I can call my aunt at the hospital.

I appreciate everyone's vibes.
post #10 of 14
Here's some vibes for your mom's husband recuperation and vibes for your aunt.
post #11 of 14
Oh Tiff, I'm so sorry about the unexpected bad news on top of the worries!

that your mom doesn't have cancer, that her husband will get everything under control quickly and be healthy, and that you get approved for disability!



Laurie
post #12 of 14
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that your mom doesn't have cancer,

Laurie
It's my aunt that may have cancer, Laurie - not my mom. But I sure do appreciate your vibes and well wishes.

I finally got a call from my aunt: she's back home now, but I don't think she's being honest about her health issues. She says she's okay now, but I don't believe her. She has a big fear of cancer (not that I blame her there ), and will go off on any doctor who even mentions the word, or recommends that she has any cancer-related tests done. I think she's in denial over her condition. I asked my cousin to let me know what really's going on: I'm waiting to hear from her..

Thanks again everyone for caring.
post #13 of 14
Oh I must have read it too fast. I'm so glad it's not your mom - but of course I still hope it's not cancer!

Hope your cousin can give you the real scoop. Let's hope your Aunt isn't being in denial and everything IS ok!



Laurie
post #14 of 14
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Oh I must have read it too fast. I'm so glad it's not your mom - but of course I still hope it's not cancer!

Hope your cousin can give you the real scoop. Let's hope your Aunt isn't being in denial and everything IS ok!



Laurie
That's okay. I've misread things myself, too.
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