It's really disheartening because I often can't tell what will provoke this behaviour which makes it really hard to avoid. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells around him trying not to get him pissed off. For example, If he's scratching at the furniture and I reprimand him, I'll end up with cat urine all over my mattress. He doesn't like to be reprimanded. Also, if i don't feed him quickly enough to his liking when I get home from work he'll do the same. If I reprimand him for biting me when I'm playing with him, same result. This has been going on for 5 years. I've had him to the vet several times and he is perfectly healthy. There are no other cats in the house and I keep the litter box extremely clean.
I've read the sticky about innapropriate peeing but am still at a loss. Does this cat just not like me or something? Or is he just a little tyrant? At what point does one give up and think about finding him a new home? I feel incredibly guilty as I consider myself an animal lover but i feel like he has me by the proverbial ****. I've had several cats before but I have to say this experience has made me never want to ever have another again.
I've read the sticky about innapropriate peeing but am still at a loss. Does this cat just not like me or something? Or is he just a little tyrant? At what point does one give up and think about finding him a new home? I feel incredibly guilty as I consider myself an animal lover but i feel like he has me by the proverbial ****. I've had several cats before but I have to say this experience has made me never want to ever have another again.